May Day, Bomb Bursts, & Happy Secrets: A Soprano’s Aria Chapter 16
Posted on September 24, 2021 2 Comments
Now 1 May Day took mother to see the May pole dance at the children’s Play Grove at the Park. It was very close and hot but we enjoyed it immensely
Tues May 2 Got a card from Eilene & Frank announcing the birth of their first child a son on the 26 of April They call him Leo Arnold. I wrote to her and mailed it today.
May 4. I have swept and must now go to sewing Mrs. Andersons dress.
May 15 I have been negligent of writing in My Diary. Several important things have happened since my last entry. I finished Mrs. Andersons dress and received 4.00 payment. I received my sample case from the Goodrich Drug Co.
And I sent Eilene her baby clothes. I visited the affiliated college and on Thursday May 11 accompanied the Ladies aid to San Leandro to a meeting at Mrs Weavers. We had a most enjoyable time. I left there at 3 oclock and waited in Oakland at 12 & Broadway for Allie. He soon came taking me out for a very enjoyable ride in his auto.
We went to his boarding place and had a good dinner served by Mrs Crawford herself and afterwords went out somewhere in the city, met Jessie & Sylvester. took another short spin leaving them at the boat house at Lake Merritt.
Then we road around town some more and Allie left me at the station and I came home on the Ferry all alone safe and sound.
Sat the 13 I went down to the church for choir practice. Syl came in late we all passed out the door together after the briefest of greetings.
Frank was waiting up at the corner where the car stops We saw him as we came up the hill. S & J started to walk home and I cut across and spoke to Vestina but didn’t recognize openly, Frank standing in the shadows of the pole, but he took the car after I got on allowing me to board it alone and pay my fare. He then passed through the car giving me an ugly look and stood in the vestibule with the motor man.I was nervous all evening at the church I could scarcely sing and I was afraid of him on the street car. I motioned him to sit by me and he put his thumb to his nose in a sign of insult and didnt come. He allowed me to leave the car first two blocks beyond our street and talked to me in a most insulting manner all the way home. He bitterly resents me going to church at all and for that reason I remained away all day Sunday the 14th which was Mother’s day. Dewey and I went out in the morning looking at flats and Lolita and I went down to
Parkside and saw several cottages selecting one to look up today on the 15th. I went down town to find out that it is not for rent but for sale.
I came home to lunch and after lunch went down and called on F.S. nice as you please where he works and told him about it. Mrs Anderson called to see about her waist and that brings me up to date.
June 1 Mooved to 128 Harold Ave Ingleside.
June 11 Went to Walnut Creek to try out scheme of selling Velvetina. Failed to find suitable boarding place and started home on the following day.
June 12 Here am I at a little waiting station between Walnut Creek ad the next station east of there. In my hurry to get started I got on a car going the wrong way. I do not loose any time but it may cost me 10 ¢ more to get home.
This is a pleasant place , beautiful wooded valleys with rolling hills all around and old Mt. Diablo in the near distance. I came here yesterday by the So. Pacific and will return via Oakland and Antioc. I hope the train hurries I am anxious to get back.
June 12 The train came on time and I enjoyed a pleasant trip and through some most sweet scenery. At Oakland we passed through a beautifully parked residence section.
At San Francisco while waiting at the wrong place for No 12. I saw Mrs White head of our sewing school days, on a street car, The folks were surprised to see me home again and rigged me a little which sounded good to me for what did I care I was home again.
Frank was nasty as is his usual attitude but it would take more than that to drive me away from my children. Mother was glad to see me back.
June 13 Commenced tearing out the clapboard and sink out of the pantry to make a dressing room out of it. It was hard work cutting the door through but I and Lolita did it.
June 14 Finished the remolding of the dressing room which is a wonderful improvement to the house. The next few days were spent quietly at Home in housework.
June 18 Sunday A splendid sunny day. Went to church in the morning transferred at Fillmore and got on a car going wrong way. Got off and walked to church on Octavia. Was a little late, lost my 30 ¢ contribution while waiting for prayer to end. Sat alone in church. Saw S. [Sylvester] sitting alone across the way. After service was over in which Mr Nugent entered by letter. I was first member to welcome him into the church. I then went out to vestibule and asked Mr DeVries if he had found my envelope. He had and returned it to the front of the church and gave it to Mr H.O. Anderson the church treasurer. Syl came up and I asked him “Wheres Jessie” he said I dont know she left before Philathea class closed [Philthea was an international, interdenominational organization of Bible classes for young women in the early twentieth century.] I was worried for a few minutes, til she turned up. She had been taking care of the babies in the nursery. Presently I missed them both and thinking they had gone to lunch before going to the convert in the afternoon. I took my lonely way up the hill past the children’s home think I might walk out to the park became tired and took the 17 car for home. When I came up the steps there was Sylvester looking out the window! When I came in explanations were in order and it was decided they missed me because I had on my new cape. And there —Sylvester says “would you like to go to the concert?” I assured him I would and he went and called up his mother to meet us at the conc. and after a hurried lunch we went. It was a very pleasant trip down and we met Mrs. Miller and Miss Hepron and soon went in. Our seats were on the top balcony and we could hear splendidly. The place was packed full. The music was beautiful. Tina Lerner the great pianist played and I enjoyed every note of her wonderful performances.
After the concert was over they escorted me to the Market St car No 17 and I came home alone dreaming all the way of the magic of music and kind hearts and ideal weather combining to make a perfect day. May I enjoy many others.
The week following was very commonplace. I wrote to Eilene urging her to come west,
F. and I continue to disagree he stays out late very night and comes home to a cold dinner the worse for drink. On Sunday the 25 he went up county and got a quantity of old brass which he sold for over $100. We had a quarrel when he came home, He used language which I did not propose to take so I wrote Jessie Kendrick to come and get mother and I wrote Allie to find a couple of rooms so I could go and live with him.
When Frank saw I was in ernest he came across beautifully although I was in no mood to accept his overtures. I refused for a day or so and finally agreed to accept his gift of $30 dollars to buy some things which I need badly enough.
June 30 he gave me 30 dollars to pay for 15 rent- 10 to Jessie and 5 for mother. He got himself 1 suit of clothes 2 suits of underware and a hat and pair of shoes etc. so peace reined for 1 day.
Sat July 1 Jessie & I went shopping and I spent some of my money for underware a hand bag a back comb etc.
Sunday July 2 I paid and was too sick and late to go to church. I cried bitter tears and Frank went away some wheres. We are not suited to each other. His is dissatisfied with me and I with him. J & S went camping.
Mon July 3 Lolita & Dewey & Milo went camping (to join Jessie and her crowd). I did house work and made a piece of lace the 5th since I came back from Walnut Creek.
It is late 10 or nearly and Frank has not showed up for dinner. Mother and I are alone. Tomorrow is the the glorious 4th of July Independence Day.
Tues July 4. The children spent the day at Lagunitas camping and enjoyed it very much. Grandma, Frank and I spent the day quietly at home working about the house.
The remainder of the week passes uneventfully. I worried about money as ever yours truly.
Sat had a big row about it Frank sent out letter.
Sun July 9 Quarreled about him presuming to send a man out with cloth for suits when I’d rather pick them out myself. Words led to bitter accusations and he dressed up and went out for the day. I got on some way. Always dissatisfied wouldnt go to church.
Then he came home and asked me to go with him to church. It was then too late so we stayed home. He is very good or very bad spells.
Mon July 10 was quiet and uneventful.
Tues ” 11 I did a big wash and Ironed and put away all of it. I cleaned house and did some sewing.
Wed ” 12 I cleaned house and did some sewing.
Thurs ” 13 Am mending and picking up rags. I hear the paper mills need then will try saving them for awhile. Between sun morning and today I mended 20 pairs of hosiery. Albert came over for lunch. He gave me 2 letters from Agnes to read. She is anxious for his return to Minneapolis.
Jessie bought her a new green hat. I gave her my brocaded ribbon to trim it with. It looks real well on her.
Fri July 14 I got a letter from Jessie Kendrick today. She writes real hopeful and reassuring. She is a good sister. She wants some of us to bring mother home. We’ll see about it.
J 15 Went marketing with Allie before he had to bid us good bye to go to Oakland. Met Mr & Mrs car in the market.
Sun 16 Went to church alone came home with Jessie in the morning. In evening went to church with Frank. He left immediately and waited out side. I was angered at him and told him he had punished me through Jessie long enough. He said I couldent run him etc etc same old story over and over again.
Allie started for Portland on his auto trip.
Mon 17. Uneventful notorious day . lots of wind and fog. Makes this place and ever changing scene. Went shopping and got a $4 corset.
Tue 18. I forgot to mention that I made the dress Eilene gave me for Christmas last week. Today am not feeling well.
Wed 19. Came unwell spent most of the afternoon in bed. No pain just overwhelming drowsy and dull.
Thur July 20 Feeling better. Washed . Got letter from Allie.
Fri 21. Dewey got a letter from Leo who is back in Mp’ls. He sent the chess game which they have been playing since dear knows when, nearly 20 years. Dewey is confident he will win.
Sat 22 Preparedness Parade during which a bomb burst and killed and wounded quite a number of people. None of my family or friends were hurt. God pity the victims and the one who caused it. [The Preparedness Movement Advocated entry into WWI. The parade began at 1:30 p.m., and 36 minutes later a bomb went off in front of the Ferry Exchange Saloon at the southwest corner of Stuart and Market streets. The bomb was in a suitcase and was set off by a timing device. The suitcase was loaded with nails, bullets and dynamite. Ten were killed and 40 wounded, It was the worst attack in San Francisco history.]
Preparedness Day Parade Bombing. Elevated view west to windows blown out of building, ambulance, crowd.
Sun Jul 23 A somnabulis day [sleepwalking] I couldent get around to go to S. S. Frank went to work. Jessie and Lolita to Sunday S. I finished my letter to Allie . D [Dewey] is writing to Leo and will mail them both. I should love to go to church but on account of F.S. attitude I do not like to. Same Dull existence from which I pray to be delivered. At 12 Frank arrived. Jessie and Sylvester were sitting on a bench in the basement to avoid his wrath. Too bad I dont like this way of treating such a nice boy like he is.
Mon July 24 Dewey’s birthday. He is 19 years old so he says. I have not looked it up. Milo and Jessie will select a present for him later in the day. I have just come from watering the garden and Milo and I set out a lot of lettuce, I will work on babys coat today.
Milo fixed me some pearl jewelry very nicely. he is learning fast. He found a beautiful little stick pin for Dewey at a pawnbrokers shop , A dainty gold crescent with a ruby centered flower. Good taste.
Frank arrived about 11 oclock. J & S came home from B. [Bible] Class meeting.
Tues July 25 This morning Jessie was up and dressed when I came down to get breakfast. She seemed in a most exalted state of happiness laughing and cutting up with the boys, Milo & Dewey. After breakfast she called me upstairs and wanted to know if I could keep a secret. (hmm me? The Sphinx is a tattler compared to much. So I get the secret! “Sylvester and I are engaged to. Its just a year ago today that we started to go together.” O yes I remember. They took me in my little gray ? up to hear Billy preach. O but the time flies. I cant make it seem like a whole year. And so they are engaged to marry. My dear joyous happy Jessie and my sober serious joyful, jovial Sylvester. That called me mother at the picnic at Fairfax last fall and when “called” for it said so earnestly “May be she will be some day” and my heart goes out to them may they always be so radiantly full of the joy of living. May they always be faithful and true each to the other. This is my prayer for them.
Then she kissed me and ran off to join her lover for a walk to the beach before breakfast. She did not eat with the rest of so of course he will treat her to that happy repast at some of the beach restaurants. Happy youth.
From our west upstairs window I look out over the roofs of the little cottages that this part of S.F. is principally composed of out beyond to the wooded slopes west of Ingleside terraces to where ever changing never the same old Pacific ought to be and behold it has vanished. Nothing remains but a dull gray pall what does not resemble the usual misty fogs at all, the sky and sea are one apparently. Idly looking I noticed something of white between the trees and interestedly watched it sink out of sight when another one appeared I knew what it was, Foam capped breakers. I never knew one could see them in that spot. And to think that that was all that was visible of the big ocean. As I write this Milo came puffing up the stairs to say he had just come in from long walk down the beach and he thought he had found some gold. He gathered up some to the rich looking sand by a cliff and brought it home. The little shiny flakes look like the real stuff. [Mica?] He will test it and see, He said there must have been a storm at sea for great quantities of kelp, a seaweed was washed ashore.
We have had lunch and I must change my dress and do something. Go down town maybe. Later went marketing got some groceries and came home alone.
Wed July 26 Jessie reported her movements yesterday. They went to the beach, Then to Millers. Mrs Miller got their lunch. Then they took her to Hayward to see some country property. Mrs. Miller likes my Jessie and says Syl is a good boy when told of his engagement, but says he’s financial difficulties they tell her. They’ll have to wait and she promises to keep their secret so there you have it a very sweet 4 cornered secret.
Wed July 27 Finished Baby Hoffmans little corduroy coat.
Friday 28 Did a great big wash mostly alone. Ironed part of it.
Sat 29 Jessie Lolita Grace & I baked cleaned ironed and mended . S came up in evening and he and J went to register. I spoke only formal words of greeting on account of others being Present!
Sunday 30 None of us went to church today. Foggy and quiet. No sun paper came. Must buy one of newsey. Jessie went to local Presbyterian church. Lolita to same Sunday School. She wore her gorgeous new burnt orange sweater. I paid my last $5.00 for.
Mon 31 School commenced with Milo at Poly and Lolita at the Crocker they have the school childrens books of street car tickets at 2 1/2 ¢ each.
Aug 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6 Usual and dull repetitions of many others. Cold foggy and altogether uninspiring but warmed nevertheless with my Jessie happiness. I crochet her lace for a pair of pillow slips and she makes herself a pink yoke in mile a minuit. She starts to work for Pragers [Department Store] as salesgirl (or lady).
Aug 6 Remained at home
“ 7 Received word from Allie that he had gone from Seattle to Miles City on a pass and would not come our way to take grandmother home which upset us some. Dewey and Jessie each want to take her home. Dewey has a new job driving Dolans motor truck at $2.00 per day and thinks he’ll keep it awhile.
Aug 8, 9, 10 Same as all the others, got letters from Leo and Eilene some where around these dates, Did my wash and came sick about the 11th Ironed and cleaned house very tired and played out by Aug 12 which wound up a week of hard work.
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Faith & Fury: A Soprano’s Aria Chapter 15
Posted on September 23, 2021 1 Comment
There are no entries from Christmas Day 2015 until Valentine’s Day.
Feb 14 1916 Valentine’s Day. But no Valentines for me I guess. I must make this entry fill a period of 6 weeks the intervening time between Christmas and Valentines Day.
In many ways it has been the most enjoyable time for me. I have not had any dress making to do which has given me a good rest. I have crocheted a couple of yokes and a couple of sets of edgings. Read the Seawolf [Jack London novel] courtesy of Sylvester Miller and did a little home sewing. The charm of these few past weeks has been chiefly caused by my reflected happiness in Jessie’s little romance. Which seems to be flowing along smoothly since her father agreed to let him come to the house.
I received $5 from Eilene with which to purchase a layette and I must get busy with it. On the other hand I have been tormented with a never ending string of bill collectors which I have not the money to satisfy. Because Jessie and Dewey Albert have been out of work all winter.
Mother [Millie Lulu (COATS) PADEN] is still with us. Sylvester gave his mother and me a ticket each to the Wagner Memorial Performance at the Cort Theater. Yesterday I met her for the first time. She is a pleasant and agreeable little body.
Last night I attended Church and sat between S And J [Sylvester and Jessie] to my chagrin and also amusement. It was all J’s fault. We listened to an interesting sermon heard a lovely solo and walked home through the panhandle. It was a glorious evening and long to be remembered . Word came from Leo this morning that he might ship his Lynotype to Colorado and might possibly come with it.
I made a beautiful middy blouse for Lolita smocked gingham light blue and white piped in blue. She is pleased
Feb 15 The most notable happening today was the Valentine Party at the church.It was beautifully decorated with hundreds of hearts and mottoes appropriate to the occasion. Mr Mahan was “Loves policeman” and Sylvester Miller was cupid. Ice cream and cakes decorated with red hearts cut out of red jello. Lolita and I walked home “on the run.” and got into bed about midnight.
Feb 16 Spent most of the day resting up.
Feb 17 Jessie & I did a big wash and usual ordinary house work and now at 9 oclock are in the parlor playing the piano and writing in my diary. Got a letter from sister Jessie today and enjoyed it very much.
F.S. has taken to dressing up and going out evenings without saying by your leave to anyone.
Mar 11 The past two weeks was spent in lonely house cleaning and trying to make 1 dollar do for two in paying bills which are all over due and in doing a little family sewing. Am getting on slowly in a baby bonnet at present .
Feb 22 Was ill but managed to get Jessie ready to go to Big Lagoon [in Humboldt County] with Syl and his sister and bro. on a camping trip which they all enjoyed immensely.
Mar 4 Lolita’s 15th birthday. The girls in her class gave her a fine surprise of a party which we all enjoyed.
Mar 5 Went to communion at church in the morning and was calmed and benefitted by the services.
Mar 6 A memorable day washed in the morning and went to consert practice in evening. Will take part in the consert if I keep my health and spines.
Mar 7 Tuesday Open House at the church went with Lolita. F. S. sore about it. Never seems to fall in with or approve of my plans and actions. However well I do not plan to oppose him or antagonize him purposely I shall act according to my own judgement in the future on matters pertaining to my own affairs.
March 8 & 9 Sewing principally
Mar 10 Syls Birthday. Jessie assisted in a little surprise part at his own house.
Mar 11 Sat Today just remembered is registration day the last– must dress and fly or cannot vote at the coming election. Jessie has gone to get Lolita some shoes. I finished Lois silk dress $4.50. Just returned from registering. Frank and I nearly missed it but got there in time. good night.
Sun 12 (Mar) Frank and I went to church at the Christian Church to her K.C.B a writer of a unique column in the Examiner speak. His name is Kenneth Carrol Beaton a Canadian Americanized or I might say Western United Statesized Altho he seems to have been pretty nearly all over. He told in slow hating speech much after the stye of his writings how he came to do so much philanthropic work. It was interesting in the very extreme. He is a man confessedly out side the Church and its influences that has led a fairly decent life took his pleasures along the way dancing a little smoking a little etc.
He said his first charitable act was to treat the Old People of the Kenny Home [Presbyterian Retirement Home] at Seattle to an outing. This was done by a direct appeal to the people who donated the necessary autos food etc. This led to others and always furnished the desired material for his writings. People have accused him of selfish and egotistical motives but he says what do the cripples and orphans a care so long as they had their outing and pleasure. He advised people when they were moved to do a kind deed to go ahead no matter what others might think and say. Much good has resulted from the small beginning and shows small acts of kindness lead one to greater ones til the good can hardly be estimated. He is a small man well set up a serious thoughtful face with kindly twinkle about the eyes. It was evident he felt himself out of place as his attitude was a trifle constrained as if he were on the defensive but determined to conceal nothing. As a consequence his little talk was not very complimentary to himself and denounced the hoards of wealth and said the day was coming when it would be a disgrace to be rich whole people starved for the want of money.
He is a very warm hearted straight forward manly fellow that loves humanity which includes children, and animals. Such as Ben Hur the kitten he rescued and keeps in his apartment. He shows us things and conditions in the downtown district in such a touching and personal way. They are soon reminded like fixing a clock in front of the Koehlers and washing street lamps which caused him inconvenience and chagrin. Also the mine hole in the street telling it in such droll dolorous way the authorities had it fixed at once. It is quite evident that he has the power to get at mens hearts and appeal to their better natures as few are gifted with. He says its all selfishness for he didn’t give the quarter he’d lie awake worrying about the one that asked him for it until he felt like hunting him up when he gave anything it gave him the greater pleasure so he was selfish. The Bible says the same thing What a pity there are not more unselfish people like that. When he finished the Minister said any one that was capable of doing so much good surely couldn’t be very bad. Frank and I walked home through Laurel Hill Cemetery [Closed and graves moved in 1939] . It was a grand beautiful spring day and long to be remembered.
After a light lunch Mother and I took a long walk in the park and saw some of the animals and the colonial room in the museum. Coming home we met Mrs Barber and her daughter Ethel. We had a light dinner and I went to church at our own place of worship the First Baptist and enjoyed a good sermon on the war by a sub Minister, Mr Hill from Berkeley. Same stereotyped phrases. I went to sleep twas a long day. I came home alone and found Jessie and Sylvester home ahead of me.
Our Syl seems to be quite devoted to our Jessie. Frank chooses to be jealous of him and Joe Richardson because once in a while I speak a pleasant word to them. They both always treat me with great respect.
Mon Mar 13 Today I finished the little baby cap for my first grand child and made arrangements to make a house dress for a lady next door. I hope things pick up and times get better. Its awful to be unable to pay your house debts. In the evening we went to concert practice and got along very well with it. I walked home with Jessie and Sylvester. and went straight to my room. Frank chose to be ugly and made sarcastic comments about Sylvester & J. which is absurd and ridiculous to mention and never would have entered the head of a sane person. The truth is that he has been spying on us all coming home from church together hoping to discover something and failing at that has worked himself up with a passion of rage and jealousy until he is almost a mad man. He called S. low disgraceful names and swore to “get him’ “put him in the hospital” and Kill the —–. The children want me to leave him.
Life with him has become an intolerable burden.
Tues Mar 14 Went down to church and worked with Ladies Aid on the new vestments for the choir. It is evening and Lolita just came home from Fryers. I made arrangements to make a suit for Maxine Lichestine today.
Mar 15 The middle of the mo. already. How fast time is speeding us toward the grave oblivion and forgetfulness I wonder. I believe my conscious spirit freed will go on unfettered expanding , developing living and experiencing the delights I am denied here on earth. This foggy morning inspires introspective thoughts. My life in being spent in one sordid wrangle after another with my husband over nothing in particular. Always he chooses to fancy himself neglected, abused and unloved. He certainly magnifies the ego, Selfish to nth degree.
This morning told me Jessie had to go. I told him that would be a pretty way to treat a child and that I would go myself as soon as I could. He replied that as soon as I went she would go too. He again accused me of not wanting him to go to church which is not the case but no amount of argument will change his mind. He says he dislike Sylvester and wont have him coming here. But in truth he would dislike any other man the same. Jessie is 23 years old on the 30th of this mo and certainly is old enough to receive company. She is a very discreet and proper acting girl and modest and refined to a degree. Mr Miller treats her with respect as he does all other women and there is absolutely no reason why Frank should act as he does in threatening his person.
I confess here I don’t know the solution what I should do or how to act but this much can do, and that is “Ye next thynge” and thats what I will proceed to do. The days work is all before me demanding my attention and the lovely California out doors calls alluringly. I can glance out my front windows and see the Eucalyptus waving and swaying sturdy and majestic, graceful and strong with an air of lofty indifference or reserved aloofness from the petty trivialities of the human life seeking rest and recreation under their protective branches. There is something reassuring and strengthening imparting new courage and hopefulness in the soul attuned to their harmonies.
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Tues Mar 16 Spent the day in trivial household duties baked bread and rolls, mended and sewed a little took a lonesome stroll around the panhandle and home to bed.
Mar 17 St Patrick’s day . A fine bunch of carnations came to Jessie from whom? I think its quite a safe guess. At present she’s crying in her closet. Why I wish I knew. Poor girl she takes everything so seriously.
Dewey gave me $10 to apply on the bills. Good old Dewey may God keep the dear heart He gave him.
I am fixing over a black skirt and find 32 is a fearfully tight waist. I fear me muchly Im growing stought [stout]. The day has has clouded over and is colder again.
Frank and I went to the Haight St, Motion Picture show and enjoyed a fine film. Mice & Men with Marguerite Clark as Peggy after we came home enjoyed a sociable evening and slept well and peacefully.
Mar 18, Morning found us thrashing out same old question. Its solution seems as far remote as when we first began discussion 1/4 century ago. Frank dont like it because I can enjoy myself away from him. That I can enjoy the conversation of other people. And he wont want me to go places with out him and he doesnt want to go with me to conserts and speaking. I always behave myself and have nothing to be ashamed of and cant see the harm of being pleasant to Jessies friends . Further I cant see why I shouldent take part in the concert the church is getting up.
I want to, the Choir leader wants all the singers he can get, And the church need the money that will be taken in. But I am satisfied Frank doesnt want me to be in it by the way he acts. Cheerful till I tell him I going and glum when I start and sarcastic and insinuating when I arrive home again. Its the same way when I go anywhere without him but he will hardly ever go with me. When I ask him to accompany me he’ll make some trivial excuse because he really dont want want to go and saves his anger till I get back. Its a awful life to live. Jessie had a good time at the church last night
Albert came over and came home with J & S. Frank doesn’t know they were here. I did not see them. Jessie is making a pineapple cake for a surprise party tonight. I made 3 pies and bread.
Sun Mar 19 Frank had to work today so I got up early and helped him off. It rained by spells all day and so we gave up our plans for a little family picnic out at the park. In the afternoon Albert and Sylvester came to dinner. I was too tired to go to church in the evening. J & S went to Mrs Mooning to see their wonderful new baby boy David Livingstone Moonie their first.
Mon Mar 20 This day is another link in my very long chain of troubles that will live in my memory as long as that memory may last. He had read in the church index that the concert practice would be held on Tuesday so were taken completely by surprise when Syl came n after dinner and said it was a mistake. So we hurriedly dressed and accompanied him to church.
We had an evening of hard work practicing and walked home through the Panhandle of the Park. I was extremely nervous but did not betray it. When we neared Ashbury we saw Frank cross over toward Oak St. As we crossed Fell St. I said “you better not come in tonight Syl” He replied “all Right” and I came right in and Jessie and Syl walked up the street and over into the Park again. F. Came right back and looked all through the house and said It was good Sylvester had not come in or he would have brained him. He watched for them awhile and then came and delivered himself thusly. You can leave the place as soon as you want to. Ill make no further effort to stop it. Albert was right when he said this family had to break up. It wouldn’t Have hurt me so much if you had walked ahead to make me think you came alone. I’ll get me a room downtown and you can get Albert to come back home and I’ll keep away altogether this is no place for me. “If you prefer his company to me its all right.” Weeps undresses for bed. Lights pipe smokes awhile and dresses himself.
I told him I had no notion of trying to get on with $10.00 per week. I let him talk and said little or nothing. I was and am too discouraged and heart sick to know what to do. It seems more than human nature can bear. Well I went into the front room and he followed me and we sat there in silence for awhile. Jessie was eyeing me the davenport reading her bible she had come in about the time her father was redressing himself. Finally I went to my room and Frank followed. We went quietly and subdued. He had talked himself out and I did not care to get into controversy with so irrational a creature. The alarm seemed to awaken me immediately after it was so soon after I had fallen asleep. Frank seemed inclined to make up but for what? Only heap abuse on me the slightest little thing I do. O I’m so weary of it all.
Mar 21 I went down to the church to help sew upon the robes for the choir. It was a long hard day and I came home with a nervous headache. Jessie and mother had dinner ready I took a nap bound my head up in a cold towel are and helped do up the evening work. Wrote up my daily chronicle while Jessie played straight through her stock of music and now Ill go to bed and thank God that gave me the day asking his protection for the night and trust in the Father of mercies to take care of me in the future as he has in the past.
[Mar] 22 A very busy day. We washed clothes and in the afternoon I finished another gown for the choir. Grandma was working on a little pillow slip all day for Eilene and she made a pie and a batch of biscuits for dinner. It is now 9 oclock and Lolita has not come home yet. “Alls quiet along the Potomac” Guess I’ll ” go to bed in”
Mar 23 Lolita arrived home safely. Jessie and Syl and they came in and S stayed awhile. Frank nor I knew of it till Lolita told me. As it now stands S seems the most gentlemanly of the two.
Mar 24 Frank threatens to renew his attentions “to every woman he sees.” I let that pass and said nothing. He weeps because I would rather occasionaly sleep in the morning then have relations with him and may be when Ive answered him shortly and sometimes for no apparent cause. I used in the early years of our married life cry bitter tears with cause enough and he had little sympathy for my weakness till gradually I quit it. Is it any wonder I hate to see him forever weeping. If I was false to him like he was to me there might be some excuse but all I ask is to go to church and sing in the concert and meet friends of both sexes without exciting such unreasonable opposition and such mad jealous rages. It is weakening my nervous system little by little but surely and certainly is it right or fair?
I went down to the church yesterday afternoon and worked with the ladies on the robes rode home with Mrs McCarthy on the street car. I brought another robe home which mother helped me finish today.
I am discouraged about our financial affairs . We owe so much and have made such a small income. I must find something to do.
(Later in the day) Well I found plenty to do Jessie & I swept and dusted everything but the kitchen and and left that til after dinner when Lois came in and right out to the kitchen and never went into the other rooms at all there by seeing the only dirty place in the house. Such is life.
She kissed me on the cheek and gave me a ticket to the Mansfeldt club concert on 12th of May in the Palace Hotel. [Hugo Mansfeldt was born in Germany in 1844, a student of Franz Liszt, he was a pianist, taught and held concerts widely in the San Francisco Bay Area. He died in 1931] O! But my O! me I’d love to go and enjoy it. I am afraid Frank will be crabbed about it just as he is about every single thing I do. He has dressed up and gone out for the evening not saying where or why. Of course when I go out I tell him very sweetly all about before hand tacitly asking his permission and I go with an uneasy feeling of being watched and spied upon all evening. Jessie is looking for Sylvester this evening. Suppose they meet. They did not meet! Peace reigns.
Sat Mar 25 Busy day cleaning and baking. Syl came up early in the day and he and Jessie went down town and got their pictures taken (I think). Then they returned and hurried preparations to go on a little week end camping trip with some of his sisters friends.
Sun Mar 26 I had planned to bake some lunch and go out to the park and eat it and listen to the music. Now mother says she doesn’t feel like walking. That upsets all my plans again. Seems as if I’m getting used to it Just sticking round at everyone’s beck and call with no say at all in the matter, I wonder what individualities are made for any how & I always to be “the least of these.” It is bright but cool today Would enjoy a brisk walk out doors.
Mon Mar 27 A very blue day altho not a work day. All my cares and responsibilities seemed to weigh me down with a load to heavy to rise up under, I had decided to give up choir practice and told Frank if asked why I should tell them. I was lying in bed early in the evening when he came in mad handed me a quarter 92 bits) and asked “what for?” and he said for carfare to go to church with so he seems to be willing I should go avoiding I don’t walk home with Jessie and her escort. Very well then I’ll go and ride. (Later) came home about 9:45 on car and went to bed at 10. Frank came in later and said he’d been to the Movies. J & S came in soon after not I did not molest them.
Tues Mar 28 Am feeling fine after my rehersal last evening but blue over a shortage of money this week. I do need it so badly. I must sew on Eilene’s little dress today. Beautiful Spring morning. Plenty of housework to do to day. Am mailing a letter to Eileen.
Thurs March 30 Jessies 23rd Birthday. On account of an empty purse I could give her nothing. Sylvester gave her a nice French Ivory comb and Brush. And Agnes and Mrs Davey each a crocheted yoke, which were very nice indeed. They got some pictures taken but as she thinks they are poor she wont give me any.
Fri Mar 31 Last day of Old Man March. Rather blustery. Lois Fryer gave a party to her young friends Milo, Lolita, Jessie & Syl went.
April 1 Milo & Dewey both succeeded in fooling their gullible (old?) mother much to their delight and my discomfiture.
A 2 Monday I cut out Mis Hazel Browns blue suit tonight. I expected to go to choir practice, but my loving partner spoke so brutal and insulting about it I gave it up, and fitted a jacket instead.
April 4 The time passes day after day they slip along draging out their weary lengths and again how swiftly were speeding on.
I arose at a few minutes before six and got breakfast for Frank & Milo put up their lunches and saw them off to work. I then ate my breakfast of dry crust and scrambled egg & coffee. My digestion is very bad. I bloat up with gas which impedes my circulation. My hunch is either too hot or cold, also my feet. I am troubled with obstinate skin disease which has been bothering me about 10 years. Dr Mary Whetstone of Minneapolis diagnosed it as psoriasis her treatment did not benefit me . When I started to do up the morning work I discovered ink spilled on the parlor carpet. I got into a row about it with the girls. I hate rows. I’ve learned they leave me depressed.
The varnishers are at work on the front porch. The upper flats are being renovated don’t know whether they intend to do our flat or not.
Last night was open house at church. I wanted to go but was afraid to broach the subject on account of Franks quick temper. I am sick and tired of his unreasonable rages.
I sewed until 9 oclock and went to bed to suffer with cold until 1 oclock. I have $10 worth of sewing in the house and must quit writing and get at it.
Sat April 8 Since writing Monday I have with Mother’s help supplemented by Lolita’s assistance, accomplished a weeks housework and finished Mrs Browns suit for which I received $7.00. I am going down town with Jessie as soon as I can get ready.— came home about 10. Got some spare ribs for sun., him some notions and a hat for Lolita.
Sun Morn April 9 Sunday Morning work and plenty of it to put everything in order, We are a disorderly bunch. Jessie is off to Sun school. Lolita didn’t go. Milo is out in Marin Co woods somewhere fishing etc. and F. S. is putting in a toilet for somebody somewhere. I’m through ironing and almost through the rest of it. Dewey is preparing to take his bath before going over to see Allie [eldest son Albert] at Oakland. Allie is the happy possessor of a second hand Owen [ a touring car] which he has acquired at the price of about $300.00. He is real puffed up over it. I finished Miss Brown’s suit and it gives satisfaction. I am to make a silk for her.
April 27 1916 It is 3 weeks since I entered my last items in these pages. I worked very hard before Easter sun. I made a shite serge coat for Maxine Lochtenstein $3.00 and a white suit and helped Mrs Ross with her skirt for $6.25. I trimmed Jessies and my hats, Bought Lolita one.
We practiced long and hard for our concert and it came off beautifully I have a picture of the choir.
Frank was very ugly about it all. Easter Sun was a most beautiful day J & I sang in the Choir. We wore the new robes and somewhat amused at each others appearance. I have been corresponding with a firm of Druggists in Omaha Neb for a position as a traveling salesman. I think I’ll get it soon. Most anything would be better than this awful shortage of money. Leo writes that he is working at Teluride, Colo. His deal with Grand Junction fell through.
Lottie Paden died April 11. She was younger than our Jessie and was the wife of my youngest brother Louie and the mother of two sweet little girls Ruth and Lois. She died of consumption [Tuberculosis, the leading cause of death in the 1900’s] brought on by a bad cold.
On the 25 Jessie and I climbed up to the top of one of the twin peaks. There is a magnificent view of the city and surrounding bay region the Golden Gate and the Presidio and the Pacific Ocean.
Apr 26 We visited a skin specialist at the U.C.H. [University of California Hospital] and had my skin trouble diagnosed it is psoriasis said to be incurable non infectious and not not transmitted from parent to child. I am taking treatment for it.
Today on the 27. Mrs Lichenstine brought her suit to fix. I mailed the answers to the questions in my application for a traveling position and did a very big wash, am very tired. It is now nearly 8 oclock and Frank has not come home to dinner yet.
Uncle Petty made a short call on us today. Then he went to Oakland to see Allie. He has a new job at Antioc [Antioch]
Jessie has gone to her bible school. I am cold and will retire for the night.
April 28 Friday This has turned out to be a most beautiful day. In the morning I was sick and altogether tired out. I became discouraged and went to bed. I could not sleep and got up and tied my head in a cold cloth. Then Albert and Uncle came I took off the cloth to welcome them. They came in his car. Uncle was very much pleased. We got them some lunch and afterward Allie drove us in the park. We got a flat tire and while Allie went for a patch, I lay down in the sun and rested. My headache left me and by the time he got it fixed up I was good as ever. I enjoyed our beautiful ride around G.G. P [Golden Gate Park] very much. When we returned Jessie called up Sylvester and he said he would accompany them to Antioc where Uncle has a position at a Hospital. Allie will drive them over. I hope that they have a safe trip. F.S. has not returned from work yet. Lolita will go up and get some stuff for their lunches tomorrow.
Apr. 29 30 Sun Usual routine went to choir practice came home alone and found F.S. lately arrived silent and morose.
Frank went and got a horse and buggy came late to break fast. Would not ask me to go for a ride but bitterly complained of my “treatment of him” calling me his usual choice collection of epithets and deriding the church using every vile language in describing it and belittling my membership therein.
He seemed most miserable and offered the use of the rig to the children who did not seem to want to go. (Dewey & Lolita) the others being absent. I offered to get up and go with him but he said he would not take me (now). So he took back the rig and now blames me because we dident use it. On ac. of his crazy actions I missed both services at church and was call to task by Mrs. Anderson whom I’m sewing for on her first visit.
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Family & Fun at the 1915 Panama-Pacific International Exposition 1915: A Soprano’s Aria Chapter 14
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Oct 11, 1915 Which I did [Lulu voted!] and for Rolph who proved to be the winner. [ James Rolph was the Mayor of San Francisco from 1912-1935 and then Governor of California for one term. He was a Republican] I watched Mrs Ettiene’s funeral from the Park [Mabel Mary Etienne who died 25 Sep 1915] and mailed a letter to uncle and the boys. During the days following I made Lois a silk coat to go with the dress. 5.00 and Lillie a blue serge suit 3.50
[Mabel is likely the same Mabel listed in Lulu’s diary as she lived at 1900 Fell St. at the same time Lulu lived at 1824 Fell less than a block away. It is interesting to note the circle of divorced women and their economic hardships.] On Sunday Dewey and I walked out to the park and inspected the pumping station the flower beds and ostriches and then came home. Frank had started that morning for Humboldt Co to look at land.
Thur Oct 17 Just two years after we landed in this western shore. I met Jessie at the Emporium and we selected a Piano which is now in the house. [Jessie is listed in the 1916 City Directory as a pianist.] We have been cleaning house and are tired out. Got a letter from the boys saying they would be here soon. A Joy and Gladness. Sylvester Miller and Jessie were out to the fair and had their pictures snapped. They are very good. Syl was here for awhile after church. Lolita served some of her cakes and Fruit. She’s getting to be a fine little cook. Albert writes of the encouraging turn in his love affairs! Uncle sent a big box of fine peaches from Escalon. I have canned quite a lot of fruit and chilli sauce this fall. This is a beautiful Gorgeous day (outside). Its always dismal in these rooms.
I expected Mrs Ross in soon with her coat to be fixed. I will or shall go to a lecture at our study club on thurs. to hear Madame Yates lecture. This brings this chronicle up to date. But I must add Frank came home on Sat Oct 9 without filing on anything and mad as a hornet at his cool reception. I couldn’t feel very hilarious over the misspending of 25.00 and the loss of his weeks work where I have to work nights and Sundays to keep up excuses but there’s an end to all things. Just keep me in the mind of that, my diary.
Went to hear Madame Yates lecture on the art of fashions in all ages. It was very well handled and of absorbing interest. She belongs to that most interesting race. The French Canadian.
Made a coat for Maxine Lichestine of brown Broadcloth and trimmed with fitch $3.00 Helped Edith Ross make her coat of brown Broadcloth trimmed with mink. $2.50 Mrs Ross also gave me some lavender Mercenised poplin. Made a white silk skirt trimmed with two broad bands of black panne velvet for Mrs Hall $3.00
Jessie lost her position at the photographers on account of slack business. Living is coming in very slowly. The weather continues fine.
Bought a set of aluminum ware for $7.83 at $1 per week. Got a letter from Goldie saying they, including mother were well. Received letters from the Boys Allie & Leo saying they were coming to S.F soon.
Oct 14, 1915 Leo arrived today. Think of that! I have looked forward to seeing him so long and here he is, in a quiet subdued way. I’m enjoying every moment of his stay with us for alas and Oh me!! he must return soon to his business in Minneapolis. He has graduated in his law studies and with his Linotype trade can get along with his battle with the world endowed as he is with a rare mentality and a sweet disposition. Add to these a serene confident outlook on life and a capacity for plain hard work fit him splendidly for his future. I only hope the rest of them will do as well.
Sunday Oct 24 We all including Donald Shaw went out to the beach and ate a big lunch under the little Stowe’s buffeted trees near the great highway in GG Park. We hiked out and back, enjoying the outing immensely. Spent the remainder of the week visiting.
Oct 29 Albert arrived. We are all together again excepting Eilene.
Monday Nov 1 Uncle Wm Petty arrived from Escalon to attend San Francisco Day at the Fair on Nov 2. Jessie put up a mammoth lunch and Sylvester came for Jessie and we all excepting Frank went out and joined our party with the throng that went to make up the 340,000 and over that went through the gates that day. The chief attraction was the crowd itself. Uncle brought a big ham and also furnished the boiled ham for the sandwiches. He left wednesday for Escalon to resume his duty as ranch cook.
Thursday afternoon Jessie and I attended sewing school at the Emporium.
Sun Nov 7 Leo and Frank went out to the fair.
Tues Nov 8 Received a letter from my mother at Los Angeles saying she would visit us soon. I hope she can come before Leo leaves.
Nov 9 Our anniversary. Passed unnoticed.
Wed Nov 10 This day will live forever as a perfect one. In the morning I arose early and got breakfast put up the lunches and got children off to school then Jessie put up some sandwiches and Albert, Leo and I went out to the fair. The weather was ideal the sky a clear blue and the atmosphere free from fog. The bay and the Marin hills stood out like cameos seen from the Fillmore hill transfer. The sun tempered the chill in the air and we wandered through the grounds from palace to court and from terrace to esplanade and on to the aviator’s field to see the ? of the hour Art Smith fly. It was wonderful loop spirals and corkscrewing described in the air by parallel streaks of white smoke issuing from the ends of his aeroplane.
Aimme [his wife] was there to send him off with an encouraging smile and welcome him back to earth again. We heard Hawain music and the band the Phillipean Constabulary Band and a that we two were making on the Edison diamond phonograph in the Oregon building. This last was the most glorious of all.
A heart gripping duet wonderfully sung by a lady and gentlemen with golden voices. I hope I hear them again.
Nov 16 My Birthday 48. Got a skunk fur and a dictionary. This memorable day was spent preparing a huge lunch for Leo to take with him on his trip through the Canadian N.W. to Mlps [Minneapolis] at night. My eyes are blinded with tears. My Leo has started good Bye. My boy for awhile and God be with you.
Nov 18 Cleaning house. Two ladies Mrs Chadwick and Mrs Craig called. Had a pleasant chat.
Sat Nov 20 Washed and started Exposition quilt of Red & White
Sun Nov 21 Blue day Walked in Park alone came home went to church and came home also alone. [Can’t help noting a similar remark about Mabel Etienne in article about her death.]
Nov 22 Monday Got letter from Mother and card from Leo. Housework and sewing on quilt order of the day.
Nov 23 Housecleaning etc.
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” 25 Jessie & Dewey went out to Fair.
Nov 26 Jessie & Sylvester Miller took in the Fair repeating the enjoyable performance on the day following which made her 3 days straight of matchless sightseeing under most entrancing circumstances.
Nov 28 Sunday Expecting Mother. Cooked our Thanksgiving turkey and trimmings. Went to meet the train No 49 at the Oakland pier and were disappointed at not meeting her. Returned to our belated dinner. Frank met the evening train with no better success.
Mon Nov 29 I went alone to meet the train and she came this time. I was very glad of it put to rest all our worries.
Nov 30 Mother and I went to the Fair. She enjoyed it very much.
Dec 1 This is Wed. We spent the day resting and visiting.
Dec 2 Washed clothes cold rainy day
Dec 3 Friday it rained hard all day. Most gloomy and depressing. Tomorrow is the closing day.
Dec 4 The last day! In the afternoon Mother & I went out to the fair. Uncle & Al had already gone also Syl and Jessie. There was an immense throng. We walked through several buildings and finally sat down in the North Archway of the Agricultural Bldg. in a lovely sheltered spot and waited from 9 o clock until about 11 o clock for the fireworks These were the best that have been displayed this season since the fair began.
The day was perfect. Clean and fresh after the rain the air sweet and cool. The skies clear and blue and the bay rippling as if its surface was disturbed by smiles and mirthful glee at the unexpected favorable change in the weather.
The scintilator drill was surpassingly beautiful. Imagine a giant’s fan unfurled against the inky sky the handle stuck in the bay and the sticks describing a semicircle searching far up into the sky. Each stick of the fan is a broad ray of electric light from a giant searchlight or scintilator, each manipulated by a man. These broad bands of light are luminous pearly white until the scintilator is covered with a colored scream of glass or something which changes the light to that color. They alternated the while with most beautiful shades of purple orange and green and trained the colored lights upon vast volumes of steam generated by a locomotive engine stationed on a pier by the bay by the Yacht Harbor for the purpose. The effect was wondrously soft and beautiful the hissing steam rising in billowy masses changing color chameleon like as it passed upwards through those magic layers of color.
The fireworks were an improvement upon hitherto performances. They were larger more numerous and of greater variety than ever before. One display resembled a thicket or clump of rushes Bending before a celestial prairie fire. Sowers of gold dust seemed to fill the far spaces of heaven and miniature flags came fluttering down like a blessing with a promise. Witnessing this magic scene were 4 <blank> people assembled along the Marina filling every nook and space, corner and roof. Happy well-behaved and bent on enjoying the last drop of the last draught or the chalice of joy. They visited sang, joked and joked commenting and exclaiming in the most delightful way upon every thing in sight. A pageant of floats made its way slowly through the street litteraly packed to the hubs with people. These were gotten up with True SF skill and mounted on motor trucks. I must pass over the pathetic closing in the Court of the Universe where President Moore pressed the button that exited. Wished the lights forever that had played so sparkling and bright upon the Tower of Jewels and all the other beautiful spots so numerously scattered about the grounds.
Art Smith’s unsurpassed flight at midnight and the final great salvo of fireworks that marked the end, for Mother and I were on tip of Filmore hill trying to get a car home.
Sun Dec 5 Spent at home at housework in morning and rest in afternoon. Sylvester came in the evening and with Jessie, Mother, Uncle and I spent a most delightful evening in general conversation.
Dec 6 Ordinary routine.
Dec 7 Went to church and walked home with Jessie and Sylvester. He told us about his operation on the chin for cancer and of his heartbroken despair at the disfiguration of his face by the removal of part of the bone and lower lip. Really this not so bad for he is quite handsome in spite of it all. On our arrival home we found the door locked and F.S. M.[Franklin Stewart Mosier] on Guard. He let me in but closed it upon Jessie and Syl. They walked around the block and he went home and Jessie came in F.S. demanded $2.50 to go downtown and blow in which I returned to him out of the 12.50 he had given me for the weeks expenses. He was mad at me for not bringing Lolita out to see the fire works at the fair sat evening. He said he raised a row Because Ma and uncle were here and he has been raving mad ever since. He told Jessie not to have Syl hanging around here any longer. Mother and I are hurt and displeased for we enjoyed his visits. He is very entertaining.
Leo sent his (Sylvesters) scarf pin back which he (Leo) found pinned in his blue chinchilla cap, when he unpacked his things in Minneapolis. Sylvester was glad to get it back but was exceedingly well bred in his concealment of it. We of the house are Openly overjoyed for the loss was a 7 days mystery so baffling that it affected our collective peace of mind.
Wed Dec 8 Baked white and raisin bread . Sewed on Mrs Woods skirt and ironed and swept the house. Helped get dinner and do up the dishes. Mother and the others helped. F.S. threatened to quit work but finally went. When we got home he reported that Jessie might have a job the 1st of Jan as an office girl ar the Lumber business. Hope so.
Fri Dec 24 The day before Christmas. Three week weeks of silence my Diary tho. neglected I’ve thought of you often and now because I’m to tired and listless to do much else I’ll endeavor to chronicle the things that transpired since I last set my pen to this page.
We have been resting up from the fair and Jessie has spent some little time looking for work and at last obtained work at the 5 & 10. She is afraid she will be laid off tonight. F.S. is still furiously jealous of every thing and every body. Now he is taking out his spite on Sylvester and has forbidden him the house, foolish man as if that would settle it. They go on meeting as usual but she cannot bring him which we all regret as he is a pleasant young man to have about. I bitterly resented this decision of his and do yet, But he is so obstinate and stubborn that its hard to reason with him or to ask favors so I suppose Our Syl will spend his Christmas holidays out of our house at least. Jessie feels this injustice keenly.
Milo has been working for a week at the fair grounds. Dewey and Frank have been there part of the time. Lois Fryer was in yesterday. She is an adorable child. Uncle Wm Petty is still here but will leave for his work next Tuesday. Lolita is busy filling bags for our Christmas Tree, and deriving great joy there from.
Dec 25 Christmas day Perfect in weather and joyful with the seasons cheer. The tree was a perfect success. The presents suitable and pretty and well recieved. Everything passed beautifully until Father refused to eat some of Sylvester’s candy. It was a splendid box from Haas and delighted all but him.
This caused Jessie to lose her effervescent spirits and so she dropped and shut herself in her closet and grieved the blessed afternoon away refusing her dinner and causing us all to wish the was a more harmonious spirit of sweetness and love in the family. Father told me today he has nothing against him but that we treated him better than himself. It is now evening and dinner is over. May the day end happily for all.
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LIBERTY & BUTTERFLY WINGS: A Soprano’s Aria Chapter 13
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Sun eve Jan 17 1915 The two weeks previous have been very busy ones for me.
When Albert handed me a perfectly good 20 gold piece and I realised its power in this money mad age of ours. I just let my imagination play about its worth and power until I evolved a bold scheme for me. Now Allies board money has always paid the rent and that being 16 was a good long ways off from the New Year. Also there was the 10 dollar gold piece Mr. Dolan gave Frank for Christmas and the 13 Dewey made working vacation so we had a family confab and decided we should risk it send is all to Jessie [eldest Daughter] for her transportation from Schulyer, Neb to little old San Francisco. So now we have heard from her she recd it and will be coming soon and I am worried to my wits end to make up the rent. We have asked him to wait until the 25 and he readily consented. So that is why I am sewing day and night and buying nothing. My partner in joys and sorrows continues to neglect me. And I am gaining a little in assertiveness in a quiet way.
I am not wholly cast down. I vaguely feel that the future holds great things for me and I shall be right there to receive it with an open mind and as healthy a body as I can keep with no professional aid. Lo then with the real faith and hope that is always in me I cannot be cast down for long although sometimes I have to admit things look hopelessly discouraging at times.
I remained at home all this blessed New Year so far and have looked out upon busy Fell St. like an inmate on some penal institution might look out upon his lost freedom. But then it can’t last forever. What comfort. Tomorrow I may wash and then I must make Mabels black suit next week so now I’ll retire for the night trusting in God and the blessed Jesus and his power to save.
July 28 1915 What a lapse of time since I last wrote in my neglected Diary. Even now I have scant time to record the many incidents which have touched my life since New Years. I shall endeavor to record briefly what I can recall of them.
Jessie arrived in due time on the [blank] F.S. and met her on the Oakland pier happy that she has escaped a wreck on the R.R. that preceded her. She entering at once in to the B [Baptist] Church becoming the life of the different departments of the work. She has made many friends and has been the cause of Lolita becoming baptised and myself sending for my church letter. I am very glad things turned out this way. My mind was becoming morbid through introspection and brooding over past miseries. All this time I have been sewing.
- I did some alterations for a Rich lady which brought me $12.00
- I made Mabels Black suit for 5.00
- Also her sister Almas Putty color suit 5.00
- A little black tafeta Jacket for Edith 2.00
- For Mrs. Fryer I made 2 suits 18.00
- black suit skirt 3.00
- remodeled green suit 3.00
- 2 house dresses 6.00
- 3 silk blouses 4.50
- For Lois 1 green dress 4.00
- 1 fancy Black & white dress 5.00
- 2 silk waists and blue corduroy dress 5.00
- 2 was school dresses 4.00
- 1 white silk party dress 4.00
- For Josephine and Belly 1.50
- 2 school dresses 1.50
- 2 Sunday Dresses 4.50
- 4 white Flannel skirts 3.50
- Mending abbut 1.00
- For Mrs Dolan 3 house dresses 9.00
- Remodeled red 1 piece dress for Mrs Fryer 1.50
- Altered 3 skirts 1.00
- Remodeled fancy blue silk in exchange for a black & white coat
- Made a white dress for Lois for one for Lolita
- Made over Lois’s black & white stripe for some dresses for Lolita
- Besides all this I have made over my Brown silk and cream
- Albatros dresses.
- Lolitas blue voile, Eilene gave her for her birthday
Jessies Black & white check suit trimmed with nearly 3 doz round white buttons and bound button holes a very fine suit and all the sewing required by the family of 6 or 7.
My mother made me a present of $10.00 which I put with some of my money getting myself a pair of $25.00 bifocal glasses which are wonderful help to my eyes. Eilene wrote to say she will help get Milo ready to graduate but I had already bought his things with $15.00 of my dressmaking money.
Uncles has come and gone again on several jobs.The last time he only came to Franks working place and borrowed $3.00 to get another job on promising to write which so far he has failed to do. I am quite concerned about the fine old man. I hope nothing Horrible has befallen him.
Leo is still in Minneapolis. Eilene was there on a visit and has returned to S. Dak.
Milo graduated from the Crocker Intermediate at the close of the Spring term in June. Mrs Fryer took us all up in her auto to see the ceremonies. When we returned Albert snapped her and I by the auto. He started that same evening for Minneapolis to join Leo and start up business for himself. I near succumbed to grief at his departure. Although I bade him good Bye cheerfully enough. The evening was gray and cheerless with a heavy cold fog which blew in from the Ocean. He got all ready to go . Said goodbye and handed me his little box of zinc ointment which he had been using on a little sore on his chin and kissed me and said good be. My heart aches yet at the thought of it for I realised that in all probability he never would make his home with me again.
My little Allie boy and my big Allie boy you will always be the same loving son to me no matter what you make of unmake of yourself. He wrote many interesting letters in Route and arrived at Mlps in safety where he is at present living with Leo in a suite at [blank] which their office is 10th floor Kasota Bldg.
School started on the 26 of July and Milo entered the Polytechnical High school while Lolita continues on at the Crocker. Dewey had quit to work and help he is a noble good boy. He and Jessie are going to enter a night school possibly the Humboldt evening High. This is certainly a city for schools a body would be hard to indeed that couldent be satisfied with one or the other of them. Music, Art, Drama, trades, academics sciences professions to dance and be glad or sympathetic and sad, how to live and how to die, in all the different keys. I am very very fond of you San Francisco. Milo was surprised indeed and delighted to meet Don Shaw at the Polytec today their class went to the Fair and had Donald to lunch. He has grown very handsome.
Last Sunday Eve (July 25) Jessie went autoing with Milo and one of her church friends and we entertained him to dinner. Seems good to have someone around once in awhile. They took me to the V.F. Tab. to hear Billy Sunday Preach (Aug 1). [Billy Sunday aka William Ashley Sunday an American baseball player who became an influential Evangelical preacher.]
Edith Ross and I have started to take Mme. Coates dressmaking classes at the Emporium. We find it very instructive and interesting.
We received a letter from Grandma Mosier saying that Ella Barrett had been struck by lightning but would probably recover. It seems such a strange fateful affliction in one with flood and fire, tornadoes and Earthquakes. Is it always true than when we are sick we have violated the laws of nature? It is absurd. I pray for her recovery.
July 29 I began this pleasant day by washing and spent a couple of hours this afternoon bringing this account up to date. I am writing this with Lolitas fountain pen. A boy gave it to Milo and he sold it to Lolita for two bits. She uses it in school. She is growing into such a fine big girl. She has just roller skated across Fell St and the pan handle to get my sewing notebook and pencil.
July 28 Wed. Edith and I went to our sewing school this beautiful sunny day. Had a funny and embarrassing experience in the Emp. [The Emporium] We were buying some cretonne [heavy fabric] for cushions and looking at some braid and fringe and when I started to go I absentmindedly tucked a roll of braid under my arm and was called by the clerk. I was dumbfounded to see what I had done. It passed off pleasantly but left me with a queer scatter brained feeling.
July 31 Sat. Began the day with a senseless quarrel about Milo filling the woodbox. F.S. told him to fill it at night and he said he did. F.S. said he didn’t whereupon I said he, Milo had filled the box and that I had burned it up after dinner on the night before (fri) when I mopped up the floor baked apple turnovers for his and Deweys lunch and washed and upped the dishes, as Lolita had gone to spend the week wend with the Freyers. Frank flew into a rage and said I lied and talked like a fool and he was tired of my butting in and for me to keep my mouth shut when he was correcting the children. He is or wants to be absolute monarch. I told him I should talk whenever I felt like it and he answered by saying Id talk once to often some day. I wonder.
Sun July Aug 9 I went to hear Billy Sunday preach.
former Baseball player & then Evangelist Preacher
What seems like a caterpillar has found her wings and emerged into the sunshine a creature to be trod upon no more but born to the light and freedom which I believe God intended for all his children. There were about 15000 people in the Yab. and although I had to stand I enjoyed it very much. he has a strong personality and throws the soul into his message which he delivers with dinamic fury of words and actions.? Tried to get Frank to go with me in the evening in vain. I went to bed.
Mon Aug 2. I am obliged to go down town today to settle up a lot of bills. It is now nearly 11 o’clock and I will prepare Milos lunch and wash the dishes. Closed the gas bill matter paying in full.
Tue Aug 3 Puttered about doing housework all fore noon baking bread etc. In the afternoon accompanied Edith to our sewing class in the Emporium, Got home 5:45 and helped Lolita prepare for dinner. Chrocheted a little sofa pillow fringe and went to bed.
Wed Aug 3 Started to wash and Mrs Fryer came by to see if I could make a dress by Fri. night. Of course I said “yes” and I shant miss my sewing lesson tomorrow afternoon either. I am expected to go tho the church this eve but am afraid I will not get through with Lo’s in time. It is now after lunch and my wash is all out. Will chrochet and rest and read. Received a copy of the “The East Shore Pioneer” from Allie. seemed good to get it.
Sept 24 The sewing school Edith Ross and I attended closed on time and a permanent sewing class organized . I am on the committee to draft a constitution and By Laws. I have been a regular whirl of sewing. I have made
- Lois’s Brown Silk Dress 4.00
- Lined and Bound Mrs Halls suit 1.50
- Lined Mrs Fryers Coat 1.50
- Made Edith’s black suit jacket 2.00
- ” Mrs Brown’s suit 6.50
- ” Mrs Fryers blue silk suit 10.00
- Finished Mrs Clarks Jacket 2.50
- Making Lois a fancy waist
- Finished Jessies big coat
- Helped her with Challis dressmaking
- Made myself a princess slip.
- Helped Edith with brown skirt .50
Oct 10 This is election day and I shall go and vote. [On October 10, 1911, California became the 6th state where women could vote equally with men, nine years before the 19th Amendment enfranchised women nationally.]
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Thank you Mrs. Fryer!: A Soprano’s Aria Chapter 33
Posted on September 21, 2021 Leave a Comment
In Chapter 12 Lulu wrote. “Without the kind neighborly Mrs Fryer next door I believe at times I should go distracted. She is so strong minded and self reliant she inspires me within me something of the same splendid qualities.“
Some years ago I ran across a photo of Mrs. Fryer in my grandfather Milo’s things [my grandfather and Lulu’s son] . This was long before I knew of or had read Lulu’s Diary. I knew she was not a family member and found her on Ancestry, located a relative and offered to send the photo. They gratefully accepted. I cannot locate a scan of the photo or my messaging (too long ago). But now, I at least now why her photo was kept!
So I decided to see what I could find out about Mrs. Fryer. Lulu and Frank move to 1824 Fell on Saturday, May 16th, 1914. Mry Fryer lives in the next building at 1814 Fell St. Here is a historic photo from 1914 of an unknown family From Historic SF. 1824 and 1814 Fell are just behind the trees and a current Google street View. Amazingly preserved and recognizable over the ensuing 100 years.
Slightly more than 6 months later Lulu is crediting Mrs Freyer with her sanity. I think the two women must have had an issue with the men in their lives. Here’s some background on Mrs Fryer. She was born April 1876 as Irene May SHOUP. Lulu would be ten years her senior.
Irene marries [age 17], the 5th of Mar 1893 to George Levi FRYER. They have children Samuel P, 1894; Phyllis, 1898; and Lois, 1900, all born in PA and surnamed FRYER. By 1905 the family is living in Los Angeles, California. It appears that sometime between 1905-1909 that Irene seeks a divorce which is decreed 5 January 1910. [According to the newspaper article].
A Joseph A RICHARDSON marries or cohabitates with Irene May (SHOUP) FRYER, by whom he has two daughters; Josephine M, 1909 and Betty, 1910 RICHARDSON. A delayed birth certificate for Bettie was filed in Pennsylvania in 1968 and listed her parents as Joseph A RICHARDSON and Irene M SHOUP. We know from Lulu’s diary that Josephine & Betty Richardson and her daughter Lois (FRYER) are mentioned in 1914, I assume the 3 daughters were living with their mother Irene FRYER at 1814 Fell St. at this time.
In 1915 I M FRYER is listed in the San Francisco CIty Directory as a “widow” of George FRYER. However her previous husband is not deceased–in fact they are no longer married. He is living in Los Angeles and does remarry. Perhaps Irene finds it easier to be a widow, than a divorcee. We see Lulu doing the same when first she was a divorcee.
So if Irene’s life was fairly complicated with 3 children from her first marriage and two more by Mr. RICHARDSON. I would think Lulu and Irene could commiserate over husband woes.
There is no more about the divorce in the papers. 18 June 1915 SF Chronicle records a Real Estate transfer for Mrs Freyer.
If you have been following the diary you will know that Lulu adored Mrs Fryer’s daughter, Lois, who sadly died 4th of December 1917. In January of 1918 Lulu attends a sale of what I suppose is Mrs Fryer’s furnishings. Later in 1918 we find Lulu visiting Mrs Fryer and the remaining children at the Fairlawn Hotel in Fruitvale [adjacent Oakland]. You will have read about Mrs Fryer’s illness and her going to live with Mrs Freyer for periods while nursing her back to health.
There is a long gap in Lulu’s diary between Aug 28 1919 and then the following:
Nov 11 – It is a long time since I made entry into this chronicle of my own personal. I arranged to take up the study of vocational training textiles and applied Design. I attended several classes and liked them very much. Then Irene Fryer took worse and sent for me. I went Sept 15 and nursed her thru her last illness. She suffered as perhaps none may know and passed away Oct 9 1919 2.40 P.M. At Their residence at 1520 Morton St. Alameda. Joe gave me many of her things and I made good use of them in replenishing my wardrobe. She gave me her brown suit herself. He paid me $60.00 for the months work. But my heart is sore at the loss of my dear friend that brought cheer and new hope into a life almost hopeless when I came to California. I hope she is happy in Heaven with Lois. She was cremated at Wood Lawn Cemetery [in Colma]. Sunday Oct 12 I was dressed appropriately in black. I wore my new plumed black hat with my tailored suit and new black shoes and gloves and veil. I stayed there until I finished the girls sewing letting down hems etc. and then came home. That day I wore my white and received a compliment on my youthful appearance. I am glad if it is as they say I look 40 at 52 but I don’t know. I went to see Dr Lillien Evans. He said that I am about my age. He is treating me for a very high blood pressure which should be between 140 and 145 and is 210. I hope it will soon be better. I am also dieting and using his skin ointment. I went to see him with Mrs Johnson whom I was nursing after I came home from Mrs Fryers. I was at her place 2 weeks and received $30.00 for my work. I enjoy making sick people comfortable and assuaging pain. This is Armistice day and we are planning to go to the Oakland celebration.
Mrs Fryer’s Obituary.
Addition from Sep 25 1920 Met friend J. [Joe] who told me a remarkably amazing story of his life and his true relation to Mrs. Fryer who was not his sister at all but his wife forced by cruel circumstances to pass as his sister. I was so dazed by the story that I can hardly grasp it yet. So Lois and Paul are Josephine and Bettys half sister and bro. O cruel world and crueler laws that govern its blundering humans.
I cannot help but say thank you Mrs fryer for your friendship and financial support of my great grandmother. She surely was lucky to have found you!
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I Hereby Declare my Independence: A Soprano’s Aria Chapter 12
Posted on September 20, 2021 Leave a Comment
Tues Sep 1 1914 Just a year since I started this interesting chronology of events as they pertain to me. It has been a swift year to pass through, very tamely passed as the record will show… I have been pensive and sad, hopeful and glad by turns, but through it all upheld by a wonderful faith that strengthens me ever anew. This is my thought for today. I will look ahead with a steadfast hope and an abiding faith in God’s promises to his children.
Wed Sep 2. Did a 2 weeks wash and the usual housework. Uncle gave me a new brass washboard and brought home some veal for dinner. First sunny day for a long time. Sent back Mrs Dotens mail and got a letter from her.
Thu Sep 3. Went down town and made some payments. Saw Joe Knowls picture [Knowles Naked in the Woods] which was quite wonderful in its way. Saw about Jessies picture didn’t get much satisfaction. Came home and cooked a good dinner of veal chops potato soup etc.
Fri 4 Freidmans mooved to Oakland. Beautiful morning. Swept the entire house. Mable call late in evening to see about a new suit. Will write to Goldie and Uncle P.O. instructions.
Sat Sep 5. Usual housework consisting of cleaning and baking. Lolita and I drove to 12th and Market to see the Barnum and Bailey parade which was all we expected and more.
Saw Frank to his working place in the lumber yard of Dolan Wrecking Co. he was just finishing his lunch. Lolita played with some kittens and we took the car for home disappointing experience. When we arrived home we found a card from Uncles dresser saying he had left for Concord on the Key West Train at 1:30 We were very depressed at his sudden departure.
Sunday Sep 6. Picked crab apples in forenoon. Fixed Mables Pique vest in afternoon. Poor Mable has had another quarrel with her folks which resulted in bruised arms.
Mon. Sep 7 Labor Day, Washed clothes in morning prepared to go to stadium to hear Gov. Johnson speak. But no Mr. Mosier wasnt going to no stupid speeches and races. So we spent a most miserable afternoon and evening. 10:30 Just finished a letter to Albert. F.S. is asleep on the couch in the back bedroom. I should worry.
Tues Sep 8 An eventful day which began with welcome Sunshine which lasted the day. Spent the whole morning at various household duties Ironing sweeping and dusting. At noon Mable brought her suit for me to make. Mr Dwyer had previously called to see about some “valuable papers” which were missing from Mrs Dotens things. I assured him they were not here. I cut Mables suit. And was doing fine when Albert and Dewey walked in. Such a surprise had to finish cutting suit. —hard work Jolly Dinner. Bed time. “Lolita and J” “Pa and Allie”. “Milo & Dewey” goodnight.
Sep 8 to 12 Worked on Mables suit finishing it Sat 12. Recd $5.00 Washed boys things and other necessary household duties. Enjoying Deweys society.
Sun Sep 13 Mable came to show off her new suit. She is well pleased. Dull day spent at home merely existing.
Mon 14. Dewey is well established at Polytechnic High School. He is growing and gaining weight. Milo and Lolita have started their fall work at Crocker Intermediate School in good earnest. Lolita is making especially good progress as evidenced by her report card. Nothing of speceal interest marks the passing days which come and go in joy or woe but each so like the other as to make a separate chronicle of them all is dull reading.
Albert and I visited the park on Peace Sunday and enjoyed the varied programs an immense throng turned out. [In the fall of 1914, Wilson issued a presidential proclamation designating Sunday, October 4 as a day of prayer and supplication for peace in Europe.] We also visited the art studio and arranged about the pictures. Jessies has been delivered.
Sep 21. Feeling unusually miserable and unwell am not neglecting my household duties. However, Sometime during this week Albert and I climbed telegraph hill and took a snap of me on that wind swept height. I bought some outing flannel to make Dewie boy a shirt which he is wearing at school now.
Sat Sep 26 I had a most harrowing experience. I went down town to send the Forrester dues. While I was filling out the order blank the window closed. I returned at once without sending the money, in a turbulent frame of mind next morning being sunday.
Sep 27 I arose sore at heart when I accidently shut the cupboard door and forced the clock out the opposite side breaking the glass. The gathering storm broke in all its fury. F.S and I were wrought up to the rupturing galling ties. I took a walk in the wild N.E. part of G.G. Park [Golden Gate Park] and read several chapters of the Lady of the Lake. [A narrative poem by Sir Walter Scott set in the Trossachs of Scotland: Loch Katrine, Loch Lomond and Stirling Castle.
Returned home and went to bed. The children went to the beach and Pops cooked lunch after which we settled down unto our respective domestic grooves outwardly tranquil.
Albert has obtained work as a machinist at $3.50 per da. He will send Jessie money to buy her ticket with. He commenced work Oct 1 and is getting on real well. He went down town Sat to buy some wearing apparrel. F.S. Went to call on his one time friend Mr Ben Nox of the Smoke shop.
Sun Oct. 4 Spent the day very quietly and pleasantly at home. Spent Mon tue wed and three all usual work
Oct 8. Just a year since we mooved into Rosses flat. They had invited us down and we all went excepting Milo, they didnt know it was the anniversary. Received letters from few and Jessie announcing Leos engagement.
Oct 9 Spent most of forenoon will write to Leo and Jessie. Recd the oval glass for Jessies picture.
Oct 27 Since writing these notes I have been very busy woman. I made 2 dresses for Lois Fryer for $5.00 and a beautiful party dress for Mabels sister. Mrs Alma Hall for which I received the sum of $5.00. This money I spent for necessities as they arose but principally to bail out Eilenes portrait which has been finished for some time.
Last Sunday Dewey, Frank and I visited the fair ground and enjoyed some excellent music. The grounds were bathed in the wonderful sunshine that sometimes graciously shines on our fog permeated atmosphere and the day was one long ideal dream. No peevish petulance marred the day and we returned in the evening to a hot dinner which was started before we arrived by Lolita.
Albert Lost his job and has been studying cartooning for a week or so. seems to have some talent and is eager to get booked for a stage cover. Hope with all my heart he succeeds. I got a nice letter from Goldie and answered it. And am sending our Lodge dues today.
Oct 27 Ended the day with a quarrel over money matters.
Oct 28. Proved to be a very distressing day in which friend husband, told a deliberate lie about an address which I had copied off a card I found in his pocket and which I later saw him erase. When questioned about this he said he did not erase it that it was not erased and that he could tell me all about it. It was where they and delivered limber he said. I went to the place No 3196 San Jose Ave. No lumber was in sight and the place appeared from the outside to be a very cheap roadhouse. [bordello] He accused me of mismanagement and driving him to steal all of which are untrue. I mended and pressed Lois blue serge today. It is now bed time. F. S. is in bed Albert at cartoon school., the others about the house. I have Jessies and Eilenes pictures. They look quite companionable on the wall. Sunny
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Oct 29. Spent day dawdling about the house, dull in the very extreme
Oct 30 Friday. Received long looked for letter from children and Albert and collaborated on a lettergram to the children, Leo Jessie and Eilene in Mplis [Minneapolis] to urge Jessie to go to Neb on the 1st as originally planned so that she will be that far at least on her way. This is beautiful sunny day. am breaking bread and working over a rain coat Mabel gave Lolita. Friend Husband and I had a calm talk on the advisability of separating and decide it would be Best to see the children out of school and able to care for themselves. He had said that the address on the card I found in his pocket on Oct 27, was that of a Dago. [Italian slur]
Yesterday Tonight he said it might have been stove fittings they sent out there and that he had never been there and knew nothing whatever of the place or its occupants. Said he supposed it was Dago because it was a Dago settlement. Protested with tears, his innocence of wrong doing. There is something back of all this.
Oct 28 Got letter from Jessie saying she was ready to leave home but unable to do so for lack of friends. Said Eliene would probably go alone to Rog. [Rogers] Neb. on Nov 1.
Oct 29 After deliberating decided to send lettergram advising girls to go to Neb. which we did they receiving same Oct 31.
Nov 3. Got letter from Mrs. Neuman saying girls paid their dues and would leave in a week.
Nov 4 Got a letter from Leo saying he would send the girls as per order. Am spending the week at home duties and resting up a little.
Nov 7 Sat. Got letter from Eilene signed Mrs F.J. Hoffman saying she was married in St. Paul on Wed Nov 4 to Frank Hoffman. Seems queer and unusual some how the fourth child to marry first. We all approve of her choice and hope their lives together will be very happy and prosperous.
In the afternoon Mrs Fryer called and invited me for a long auto ride. I and the children had just finished the Sat work so I accepted and we went clear to San Mateo and back without mishap. Getting lunch at a cafeteria down town on our return. Most enjoyable ride.
Sun Nov 8 Tired and sore muscles. Sad about loosing Eilene my little lass? out of the family. Stayed at home.
Mon. Nov 9. Spent most of the day reading paying bills and doing housework. Got coat of Mrs Fryer to make over for myself. Made a dandy coat. Spent Most of the week working at it. She gave me a white dress to make one for Lolita and one for Lois out of. She furnishing the required material to complete them both. I almost finished Lois’s during the week.
Sat Nov 14 I did a big wash with Dewey good help. Most splendid good boy to work. Felt quite bad and chilly in afternoon but recovered after. He made me comfortable by a fine fire in the cook stove. Good Boy. In evening I shortened 2 pair of black bloomers for the children, Josephine and Betty Richardson. And bought a pair for Lolita, from Mrs Fryer which she had bought for Lois and were too small.
Sun Nov 15 This proved to be a very pleasant sunday spent quietly at home with the family. I darned 3 pair of stockings and shortened a pair of can. Trousers for Dewey to wear at basket ball Mighty handy they proved to be at that, We are nearly to the bottom of dear old uncles trunk and how useful the things in there have proved to be. This is the last day of my natal year . Tomorrow I will be 47 years old and I must say it I don’t feel or look it my hair is a little darker but not gray and the wrinkles have mercifully kept away so I welcome my birthdays which bring added experience but leave little impression of their passing. It is 9 PM and I shall soon go to bed to rest for the morrow’s duties.
Dec 31 1914 This is the last chance I shall have to write that date. It is 6 weeks since I set my hand to this page.
Nothing of Great Importance has transpired to mark the even tenor of our daily lives. Things have gone much as they always do. I have spent almost all of the time at home working early and late at my housework and sewing. Without the kind neighborly Mrs Fryer next door I believe at times I should go distracted, She is so strong minded and self reliant she inspires me within me something of the same splendid qualities. I begin to see things in a different light and have come to the decision that no man or woman has the right to spoil my life and why I have submitted to be dominated by a selfish and arrogant and often cruel nature, is more than I can make out.
Too meek to take a stand for my rights as a human being I’ve been obliged to starve the higher and better instincts in me without a protest hardly because indeed my dominant was low and coarse a and ignorant. Do I peer into the misty fog of the future and catch a glimpse of light, hope, happiness and freedom. I hardly dare trust myself to look again lest the vision vanish. I pray God to give me strength to stand for my personal rights and I hope the dawn of the New Year now so soon to come will bring me as opportunity to live progressively, optimistically joyfully and free. What a word . No black slave ever suffered his bondage more keenly then I. Nor did shackles clank more cruelly galling than mine.
For a quarter of a century I have not dared to voice my own thoughts regulate my own personal affairs or exercise the least bit of personality with out exciting the most violent outbursts of resentment rage and fury in my husband, that swore to love and cherish me. I have submitted to every kind of abuse and humiliation and Now on the Close of the old Year and the beginning of the New I hereby declare my Independence and am prepared to fight for it if necessary and to maintain my own individuality at any cost, even to going out into the world alone to find it if it becomes necessary. Perhaps I shall find it a difficult role to play but nows my chance to prove I am a true daughter of a veteran. [Her father James Lewis Paden; Union Army Civil War veteran] It is nearly 12 oclock and Lois, Lolita, and Lulu (myself) are holding a watch meeting.
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A Dull & Hopeless Summer: A Soprano’s Aria: Chapter 11
Posted on September 19, 2021 2 Comments
Wed Jun 3. Thu June 4 Busy days. Cooking and planning variety in ???
Friday June 5 Fish for dinner. Quite a fine change and no added expense. Jessie and Albert wrote me letters which I received later. Leo sent samples of his office blanks and also a Catholic standard which pleased my old lady very much.
Sat 6 Usual work. Week remained cold cloudy and disagreeable.
Sun June 7 Uncle came up. We took a walk in the park and heard the band play. Returned and got a good dinner which pleased them all. Very tired. Bed early.
Mon Wash day.
Tue Iron day.
Wed 10 More wash, a little sewing, and the usual cooking.
Thu June 11 Cold and cloudy. Milo came home. Mending for him all day. He fixed Mrs. Dolon’s electric light. Uncle came up in evening and will come back for a whole day tomorrow. Has quit his place in S. San Francisco. Got a big continued letter from Albert. Enjoyed the account of his travels very much.
Friday 12 Bad headache and Milo returned to Ross Valley.
Sat 13 Usual work. Took cold in head cleaning and resting in cold room. Weather cold and gloomy.
Sun 14 Walked out with Mrs. Dolon our lame boarder. Returned and got good dinner for bunch. Not well.
Mon 15 Uncle Wm Pettey got a job cooking at Rio Vista at $35 per. Quite elated. Mrs Dolons niece sends her a cooked squab. Pronounces it inferior to my tomato soup and mutton. Bad cold in head.
Tue 16 Cold some better. Will spend day writing, cooking, and getting well.
Wed 17, Thu 18 Fri 19 Sat 20 Sun 21 Spent very quietly with usual household duties. No letters to speak of excepting one from Mother and one from Milo. F.S. painted the dining room and kitchen floors Sat eve and fixed the gas grate on Sun. No guests. Didn’t go out at all. Crocheted nearly yard of heavy dutch lace for bed spread. Weather continues cool but sun came out. Hot on Sunday.
Mon June 22 Writing to Mother and Milo.
June 25 Milo returned from Ross Valley, had a good time
June 27 Frank’s Birthday. No demonstration. Dull cloudy days unmarked by incident or accident doing the daily round of household duties as cheerfully as may be.
July 4 Passed very quietly. F.S. and I remained at home working most of the day. No letters from children but one from Leo and another from Albert.
July 5 Quiet Sunday
“ 6 Ripped[?] up dress for Mrs. Doten. Helped Mable Isenbeck with Middies. Tue and Wed house work and service. Finished black dress for Mrs. Doten getting 2.50 for my work. Took long walk in evening out through Park with Frank.
Thu July 9 Washed clothes. Recd letter from Mother Paden.
July 10 Usual housework
“ 11 Sat cleaning. Usual conditions.
“ 12 Sun. Home most all day. Climbed Lone Mountain in eve and enjoyed the S.F. scenery.
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July 13 Mon Mailed letters to Leo, Mother Paden, Emma Paden, Albert + Leo, Donald Shaw and Uncle. Washed clothes. Housework.
July 14 Climbed big hill at south end of Ashbury. Biggest I’ve been in S.F. Too dark to enjoy view.
15 Wed Stayed home all day puttering about house working.
16 Thu Cleaned front rooms. Recd letter from Goldie containing one from Lottie telling of illness.
July 17 Fri Received continued letter from Albert. Wrote card in ans. and mailed it to him. Also mailed big letter to Uncle. F.S. buzzing around fixing his bath. Must send Goldie letter.
July 18 Sat Cleaned house and cooked meals Crocheted some on edging in afternoon. Tempestuous scene with F.S.
Sun July 19 Pleasant day outside. Inside, turmoil and dissatisfaction. My back and head aches and I am lonely and dispirited. Sick and tired of everything and the future looks dull and hopeless.
Mon July 20 Housework of various kinds kept me busy. Weather all same [?] Winter.
Tue July 21 Busy as a bee. Very monotonous. Got letter from Mr. Hickey enclosing 5 on aunts board.
Wed July 22 Lined a jacket for Edith received $1.50
Thu July 23 Bought box peaches and spent day canning. Got letter from Eilene saying Dewey was sick in City Hospital in Minneapolis. Anxious and apprehensive time.
Fri July 24 Dewey’s 17th Birthday. Got letter that he [Dewey] would be out of hospital next day, so thankful. Washed cloths nearly all day. Wrote to Jessie, Albert, Leo, Eilene, Dewey, Grandma Mosier and Goldie Mathews.
Sat 25 Wonder if Dewey started today. Ironed all day and cleaned house the rest of the time.
Sun 26. Baked lovely bread and cooked regular meals. feel very draggy in the limbs. Went to movies in the even’g, fair
Monday July 27. School began with Lolita and Milo in attendance, Wrote to Mrs Newman and children. Went Downtown to pay bills and bought blue chambray?
Tues July 28. Bought box tomatoes for 60¢ and made 17 qt. chili sause
Wed. Thu and Fri spent in busy round of household tasks, canned some fruit washed, ironed cleaned house and cooked 3 square meal a say
Sat worked hard as a slave all day long. Very tired at night.
Sun Aug 2. Mrs. Doton refused to pay more than $25.00 her mo for her board so I took her Aug at that price when she will find another place. Frank and I went to the beach and ate lunch at Sutros Grove sitting on the ground outside the fence. Fine place. Came home in eve and helped Lolita get Dinner
Mon Aug 3. Read war news in morning got breakfast and lunch. Went down town and paid several bills. Got letter from Dewey saying he would come soon. Good news. Milo got a letter from Uncle. I wrote to Leo and Dewey. Am feeling slightly unwell. Almost bed time.
Tues Aug 25 Leo’s Birthday. Wrote to him and Albert. Went down town and ordered a 2 spool sewing machine. Came home and cut a black Satten dress for Mrs Doten. During the past 3 weeks the daily events occurred in much the same uneventful manner. We spent several anxious days around the 11 looking for Dewey and then got word that he would not come until later. Wrote to Jessie and Eilene requesting more explicit letters.
Aug 26. Remodeled flower basket baked 8 loaves of bread and sewed on Mrs Dotons dress. Am nervous and agitated and not very well
Aug 27 Thursday. Worked all spare time on Mrs Dotons dress. Cleaned sewing machine. Daily grind. Wrote to Mother. Got a letter form Goldie. Alls well.
August 28 Wrote to Goldie Promising sample Civil Service questions. Sewed. Packed Mrs Dotens trunk
Aug 29 Sat. Severe headache. Finished Mrs Dotens blk. satten recd $2.75. Went down to Filmore and bought some stockings and meat. While I was away Eilenes letter and New Eldredge 2 spool sewing machine came. Went to bed supperless on ac. of headache.
Aug 30. Milo’s 15 birthday. Violent scene at breakfast. A family squabble. Mrs Doten failed to settle satisfactorily and F.S. held her electric heater. She left at noon. Shortly after Uncle came home sick with a chill. Put to bed with a dose of quinine. —-got up and enjoyed a dish of hot mush. Talking war with Frank. Must write to Eilene.
Aug 31. Wrote Eilene. Pottered about doing housework. Ripped Lolita’s silk dress. Uncle better. Went out with Lolita and got 50¢ mutton 2 loaves bread and 1 25¢ pineapple.
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Decoration Day: Why Family History Writing will make you a Better Genealogist
Posted on September 17, 2021 Leave a Comment
I can hear you mumbling, but I hate writing. That may be because you think it hard work. Maybe if you had to start out staring at a blank piece of paper or a white screen, but if you are a genealogist that isn’t the case. You have the rough outlines of hundreds if not thousands of ancestors. When you decide to write about someone in your tree and all you have is the rough outlines of their lives, it’s going to take some work to research more than names dates and places. The writing part is much easier than the research. It’s when you set out to write that you find out what little you know.
The title of this piece is taken from a mention in Lulu’s diary of Decoration Day. Do you know what Decoration Day is? I was not sure, thought it had something to do with Memorial Day, so I had to look it up. General John A. Logan ordered the first observance, known as “Decoration Day” to honor those who died “in defense of their country during the late rebellion.” Mourners were to honor their fallen Civil War soldiers by decorating their graves with flowers. This was the pre-cursor of Memorial Day. Memorial Day, like Decoration Day, was specifically, to honor our military personnel who had died in battle. Although it has come to represent remembering all our dead it is meant for those who paid the supreme sacrifice in lying down their lives in service of their country.
I got to thinking about my great grandmother, Lulu, and who she may have thought of on Decoration Day. That made me think of her father, James Lewis Paden, who fought in the Civil War, but he did not die, he survived. Mostly it made me think of Lulu’s uncle, Sylvester G COATS, who died on the Battlefield in Champion Hill, Mississippi. He was just 21, and he would not go on to marry or have children. He would not even be remembered with a grave marker. How many of these ancestors do we have in our trees? I am grateful to my cousin Malia Hammerstrom for permission to post her story about Sylvester and his brother Charles:
“Charles Noyce Coats was the oldest child and Sylvester G. Coats, the second child. [Uncles to Lulu (PADEN) MOSIER] Charles enlisted on Oct 24, 1861, at the age of 21, in the 11th Indiana Infantry Volunteers Company H. Sylvester, who was two years younger, followed him into war five months later. He must have traveled to Tennessee to join his brother’s company on March 28, 1862. They were among troops moving westward to try to cut off the Mississippi River from use by the Confederacy. Just a little over a year later, on May 16, 1863, Sylvester was killed at the Battle of Champion Hill. This battle was a part of the Vicksburg Campaign. Sylvester’s death is described as being due to a rifle shot to the forehead. According to old family stories, Sylvester and Charles were together on the battlefield that day when a bullet hit Charles’s gun, ricocheted, and killed Sylvester. Charles made his brother’s coffin and buried him on the battlefield.
A short time later Charles was promoted and eventually became Captain in the 53rd U.S.C. (Colored) Infantry. In 1865 Charles fell from a bridge on the LaGrue River and was seriously injured. He was paralyzed from the hips down and was unable to walk for six months. He was medically discharged from the army. Charles lived until 1889, but from family stories, military records, and state records he had a very difficult life—physically, mentally, and emotionally. The family believed he never recovered from his brother’s death. Charles eventually made his way to Nebraska where his sister Millie [Lulu’s mother] and her husband as well as his parents lived. After several other adventures, he died in the Norfolk, Nebraska in the state asylum and was buried in the Purple Cane Cemetery in Dodge County, Nebraska. His grave remained unmarked for 38 years until his niece, Jessie Paden Kendrick, applied for a headstone due him as part of his veteran’s benefits.” Malia Hammerstrom
This writing brings these two men to life. It is clear, focused and informative. Writing, even a short piece, can not been done without the research. The point is that you don’t often know what you need to research, until you start writing. The WRITING forces you to dig deeper. It forces you to put the story in context. If you are staring at a blank page it isn’t because you can’t write, it’s that you don’t know their stories. Writing is the telling of someone’s story—to do that you justice, you will need to expand your genealogical research. It’s not an exaggeration to say that Family History Writing IS Resurrecting the dead. It is honoring their lives. Writing can be short and poignant, as this piece is. It is so much more than a name and dates on a tree. Two paragraphs….that is all it took. You can do this!
Kelly Wheaton with Malia Hammerstrom Copyright 2021. All RIghts Reserved.
Moving Days: A Soprano’s Aria Chapter 10
Posted on September 17, 2021 3 Comments
April 1 Fools day. Celebrated by going down to the Em. [Emporium] and buying a sewing machine for $35.00. 2 down and 1 per week forever after. Sent Jessie 3 songs Aloha dream days and Sing me the vesper.
Apr 2 Sewing machine came today. Made Lolita a little chemise out of a sugar sack the first garment. Think Ill like it much. Helped Edith with her pattern. Just got letter from Leo. All well at home.
Apr 3, 4 Finished the coat for Milo. Fair weather. Usual duties.
Apr 5 Uncle to dinner. Fine day all day Sunday.
Apr 6 Monday. Cut out Mabel Isenbrook’s tango colored serge suit. Spent the remainder of the week making it and attending to my ordinary household duties. Sat the 11th cleaned house. Bought Lolita a pair new Mary Jane pumps for 3.50, hose 25. Albert arrived in afternoon.
Sunday Apr 12 Easter Day Spent entire day cooking a good dinner for family. Uncle and Albert guests. All seemed to enjoy it—but me. My enjoyment seems to be in giving others joy. Delivered Mable’s suit. Received in payment $5.00.
Mon Apr 13 Albert paid the rent. Visited the Polly, had a cup of coffee, and left for Stockton to resume his work in the shops. Unrivaled spring day.
Tuesday 14 Made outing flannel kimono for myself. Mrs. Ross gave the goods [fabric] to Lolita Christmas and she gave it to me.
Wed 15 Sold Mrs R a loaf of bread for ¢10. Ripped up old white skirt and made Lolita 1 plain and one pleated skirt of it. Cut out Lolitas plaid.
Thu 16 Worked on plaid dress. Mrs Ross gave me some blue serge to combine with it. Easter cards from children.
Fri 17 Got letter from Grandma M. [Mosier] Finished plaid dress + pleated white skirt. No letter from Albert. Beaut weather. Lonesome days.
April 18 Sat Washed cloths, cleaned house and pantry bins. Baked 6 large loaves of bread. Went upstairs and played on the piano in evening.
Sunday Put up lunch and all went to G.G.P. [Golden Gate Park] to eat it. Spent day wandering about grounds and museum. Delightful weather. Very Enjoyable day. Lolita went to Presbyterian church with Mrs Ross
Mon 20 Papers anticipate war with Mexico. Cool weather. Recd a letter from Mother containing a Hardanger doily—the first she ever worked. Tuesday, Wed, Thu, Friday, sat lovely spring weather. All well. Took in 8.50 worth dress making. Worked at it some. Went down town twice. Made 2 payments on machine. Received letters from Emma P., Goldie M., and the children. Went to look at flat. Washed and baked and wrote to Albert and Leo.
Sun 26 Lolita and Uncle went to San Mateo for a street car ride and brought home some lovely roses.
Mon 27 Wrote to Grandma Mosier, Emma, Goldie
Tuesday, Wed, thu, fri, sat Usual household duties of washing, ironing, baking, cleaning, cooking and sewing. Nothing of event transpired to enliven the dull days. No letters received.
Fri May 1st Vacation. Milo and Don went hiking out to Parkside. Lolita lonesome. Myself busy.
Sat May 2 Nervous and restless. Busy day. Shopped in evening. Walked down to Divisidero St to register. Not in state long enough. Albert came home at 12. Mending.
Sun Uncle came up. All unpacked house. Dull day.
Mon Albert and I went to the real estate agents office on Haight st and paid $5 down on flat. 1824 Fell St at $20 per mo. Going to be a hard pull all right to make expenses on $2.25 per day. Blue prospect. Went with Albert to Ferry to see him off. Walked back to Emporium. Paid $2.00 sewing machine. Got letter from Mother with pictures of herself and Uncle Aaron, Albert Paden and Gertrude Flanders and daughter Dorothy.
Tue + Wed Same as two peas or samer. Nothing but work and worry. Got a card from a lone agency saying don’t worry. Did home ironing and sewing.
Thu May 7 Cool and cloudy. Pleasant. Potted some slips. Recd letter from Underwood Co stating that type writing teacher was dead. Writing this at 1.30 a.m.
Sat 9 Cleaned and mended cloths. Went down town with Frank in evening in the Sterling, Leo’s auto, and ordered $200.00 worth of furniture consisting of 2 rugs, davenport, bed, sleepy hollow chair [ Upholstered wing chair], stove, cooking utensils, table chairs and dishes, Iron bed springs and mattress and chiffonier. Got letter from grandma Mosier and a card from Albert.
Sun went strawberring. Lost hat pin and jar of strawberries. Came home in evening. F.S. [Frank] worked for Dolan in Oakland. Came home with face red by lumber and what made Milwaukee famous. [beer]
Monday 11 Cleaning house and washing some. Sorting cloths. Wrote to Jessie, Albert, and Typewriter Co.
Tue 12 Did a big wash and returned Mrs. Ross’s towels, table cloths, sheets, pillow slips and bedspreads.
Wed 13 Ironed, saw real estate agent. Went down to store to see about stove.
Thu 14 Cleaning out drawers and writing letters at 10.30
Fri 15 Packing and getting ready to moove. Probably our last night at Rosses. Returned Princilla crochet book. Mending. Cold and rainy.
Sat 16 Mooved into flat 1824 Fell st. Albert came at noon and assisted in substantial ways. Cold and cheerless weather.
Sun 17 Unpacking, baking and getting dinner. Albert and Uncle for guests.
Mon May 18 Unpacking and cleaning. Hard work. Cold and cloudy weather.
Tue May 19 Continuation of above.
Wed 20 Did first wash, tubs pretty low. Wrote to children.
Thu 21 Wrote to portrait man and sent in change of address to P.O.
Fri 22 Got letter from Albert saying he would be home on the following Wed. Also letters from Leo and Jessie.
Sat 23 Housework and so forth. Still more rain. Cold and dreary. Uncle came up for dinner.
Sun 24 Frank got load of wood and went back to work. Quiet day of rest. Early dinner at 4 for 4.
Mon May 25 Very quiet uneventful day. Sun came out but still cold in house. Got bill of goods from Sterling store saying our things came to $211.75 Quite enough. Potted some plants. Mended F’s shirt. 8.15 p.m. writing these lines
Tuesday May 26 Nothing of importance. Same old grind.
Wed 27 Washed in forenoon. Albert came home. Looking fine.
Wed Thu 28 Washed in forenoon. Got letter from Goldie sending postage for Song Book. Still cold and damp most of the time. Considerable wind though we don’t feel it much here.
Fri May 29 Washed in forenoon. Nearly cleaned up by now. Albert visited Poly Tech. Got letter from Leo stating financial condition of branch which discouraged us all temporarily. Man called to get board and room for his Aunt.
Sat 30 Decoration day. [Decoration Day was set aside to honor those who died “in defense of their country during the late rebellion” which was the Civil War. Lulu had an uncle Sylvester G. COATS who died on the battlefield of Championhill, MS at the tender age of 21.] Lulu’s uncle Stayed at house all day and worked. Wanted to go to Presidio. Uncle came up to bid Albert good bye. Allies trunk came. Man came and arranged to send his Aunt on Tuesday next.
S. F. Examiner
Sun May 31 Last day of May. Cold and cloudy, foggy and misty all day. Albert left early with friend on motor cycle for Sacramento on his way to Minneapolis. Hard to say Good Bye. F.S. nailing all day on side porch.
June 1 Mr. Hickey and Uncle came to see about Aunt’s board. Didn’t like the uncle. Hard to deal with.
June 2 Fearful troublesome day nearly came to a smashup on account of my agreeing to board Mrs. Dolan for 25 per. F.S. furious. Uncle or Brother arrives and is told nothing doing. I go for walk in Park and return. F.S. packs suit case. Nephew arrives and offers to pay the $5 extra. The bone of contention being picked clean, the agreement is made and nephew departs. Brings Aunt a few hours later. Very busy day. Bought a little gas stove, little oil heater and numberless other trifles to make the old lady comfortable. Says she thinks she’ll like me real well. I think that she will have a humanizing affect on all of us.
It appears the flat that Allie rented for Frank & Lulu at 1712 1/2 Fell Street was furnished. 1824 Fell is one block west and one block closer to Golden Gate Park, it appears this was unfurnished. The cost to furnish the flat was a very precious $211.75. In order to make ends meet Lulu orders a sewing machine (to sew clothes for paying customers), bakes bread and takes on a boarder, which upsets Frank. When she says the boarder will have a humanizing effect, I wonder if Lulu is thinking having an outsider, will help keep Frank in line. I note a wry sense of humor in Lulu’s writing like her “Fools day. Celebrated by going down to the Em[porium] and buying a sewing machine.“
Kelly Wheaton Copyright 2021. All RIghts Reserved.
Songs That Never Grow Old: A Soprano’s Aria Chapter 9
Posted on September 16, 2021 Leave a Comment
Thu Feb 19 1914 Cloudy and sunny by turns. Heavy rain last night. Morning work done at 10:30. Will work on my crocheting before getting lunch.
Fri Cleaned up old collection of fancy work papers and served them in assorted bunches
Sat Baked white and raisin bread. Washed clothes and cleaned house. Went down town in evening and got some notions at 10¢ store. Washington’s Birthday.
Sun Jan 22 Decorated windows with T Cigar fans red white and blue. Very dull rainy and dreary. Helped Milo straighten up bed room in evening. Crocheted a little basket for Lolitas birthday.
Mon Beautiful day. Every one out but me it seems. Washingtons Birthday celebration at the Fair Grounds. In afternoon Albert and I went out to Fair Grounds. Cost us 90¢. Saw big buildings in process of erection. Had a lovely time. Went aboard the torpedo boat destroyers one of which was stationed in the bay at the fair dock or wharf or what ever they call it. The weather was superb after so many storms. We picked out way among the rocks and puddles and piles of building materials and had to watch the progress of our feet most of the time but the view of the bay and surroundings was most beautiful. Come home in time to get supper and hurry Albert off to work. Uncle came a while and praised my cake. He always finds something to praise. A fine old man is Wm Pettie. Must make up folding bed and retire. Received nice long letters from the children at home.
Tue Feb 24 Spent the day in ordinary duties. Went down to Emporium after cloak which was on the way out in det. wagon. Went in to Hales and got pattern for my new Challis [fabric], Allie gave me.
Wed 25 Baked bread crocheted new Irish lace edge (not very well).
Thur 26 Spent quiet day at usual occupations. Wrote to children. Beautiful weather. Sunny and bright.
Friday Feb 27, 1914 In the morning, Lolita tardy to school. Came back with yeast to bake with. Got letter from Grandmother Mosier. After noon received letters from Goldie Mathews and Agness Davey, the later to Albert. Goldie sends I’d like to live in Loveland with a girl like you. Pleasant to get a letter from her.
Sat Feb 28 Last day of old Feb. Did a wash and usual cleaning. Went down town with F.S. Gloomy experience. Slow burst after returning.
Sun, March 1, 1914 Beautiful weather. Stayed home all day. Furious altercation with old boy who calmed down and got quite tame. In evening writing to Newmans sending Drs. Certificate w count.
Mon Mar 2 Sunny and cool. Bought “Songs that never Grow Old” 79¢ with 6 ex. Coupons. Received letter from Mother, Jessie and Goldie. Will ans. at once. Mailed letter.
Tues Mar 3 Beautiful sunny day. Made over Eilenes coat for Lolita. The one May Ringberg gave her in Minneapolis.
Wed Mar 4 Lolitas birthday. 13 years old. I gave her a crocheted basket. Allie 1.00 r.a. 25¢ Baked 8 loaves bread. Got letters from children.
Thu New day of promise. May it end as well as it began. Children off to their schools.
Fri 6 [splot] Chrocheted first button cover. It is for [splot] Lolit[splot]s coat out of blue silk thread. This fountain pen either feeds to fast or not-at-all. What is the ans? A new one.
Sat Nov 8 1914 Usual cleaning with a big washing throwed in. Shopped, or rather marketed on Haight st in the evening. Fought fleas until a late hour. Milo visited the Lurline baths.
Sun Went to the Band stand in Golden Gate park and enjoyed the music. Sun very hot. Crowd immense. Saw 3 pairs of twins. F.S. went out on his first house hunting expedition. Walked miles and found nothing. Albert at the Portola. Beautiful spring weather. Shrubbery in the park in full bloom.
Mar 9 Monday baked bread and did ordinary housework. Got Lolitas and Milos sleeves fixed $1.35. So soon after buying new ones. Cooler today. Got letters from the children at Minneapolis. Also Mrs. Newman
Mar 10 Cooler and fair. Ordinary housework and duties. All well and – happy –
Mar 11 Ironed. Pressed Lolitas coat. Housework and so forth. That –don’t—look night. Made a crochet medallion in the afternoon. Colder. Eclipse of moon.
Mar 12 Got 20 lb of sugar for 1 and $1.50 100 lbs potatoes for 1.50. Prices are lowering a little. Baked bread late in evening on account of late delivery of flour. Letter to Lolita from Pearl Whitney.
Friday Mar 13 Said to be an unlucky day. Opened up fair and sunny. Splitting headache. Underwood typewriter delivered to the house for Alberts use.
Sat. Mar 14 Washed clothes. Beautiful sunny day. Mended stocking s all afternoon. F came home in evening to supper with his weeks wages. V. N. Uncle came up. Just missed Albert who had gone to work. F went to about a plummers job. didn’t get.
Sun Mar 15 Baked a big batch of bread. Uncle praised the bread and fine flavored home cooking. Quiet uneventful day.
Mon Mar 16 Got letters from Goldie, Jessie, Mother, and Mrs. Newman who sent Franks sick benefit dated from Jan 28 which is a mistake which amounted to $9.90. Will have Leo look into it. Ironed, fussed with flowers in front-yard. Bought shirts.
Tue 17 Went down town and exchanged shirts. Ordered gas pipes tested for leaks. (Hot. 86)
Wed 18 Continued beautiful sunny weather. Easter vacation for the school. Albert working Wed, Thu, Fri for Dolans.
Thu 19 Ordinary duties. Cooler. Sewed. Helped Mrs. Ross get black silk shirt. Also Edith with her rose silk waist.
Fri 20 Made Lolitas middy out of Allie’s white waist coat. Made red silk tie out of muffler.
Sat 21 Washed cleaned. Tired out. M.F.
Sun 22 Vio: ero . fam. cir denies act repudiates my statements. Insulting treatment. Quiets down. Uncles comes up. Peaceful eve. [perhaps Latin for Violence: A familiar circle of love]
Mon 23 Albert and I go out to Beach. Albert leaves for Stockton in eve. Frank is at the ferry and we come home together after buying him a pair of shoes and 2 pr brown socks.
Tue 24 Bough Milo a new suit at SN. Woods. $6.00
Mar 25 Got letter from Allie. Started Butterfly. baked. [Butterfly is a 1914 Novel by Henry Kitchell Webster]
Thu 26 Got letter from Jessie and Mother. Finished Butterfly. (crochet)
Fri 27 Broke spectacles, both lens. Washed; fine weather.
Sat 28 Sent lodge dues to Newman. Baked bread cleaned house. Spent eve at home. Rained all night.
Sun 29 Went down to see house with Frank. Nice car ride. House no good.
Mon 30 Got letter from Albert. He’s doing well in Stockton. I am turning Deweys old coat for Milo to wear to school. Some rain. Cool. Loaned Mrs. Ross pattern.– Jessie is 21 today —
Mar 31 Very quiet uneventful day. Wrote to Albert and Mother. Cold.
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